What is a person with no personality like? (characteristics, feelings, depressed)

[imsh0t]

I think its about your environment. You sound unhappy with your situation in your posts. Id suggest maybe transferring back to somewhere where you are comfortable. There are many good schools in the new york area. Youll thrive rather then be grinded to a former shell. I think it would be a good change for you.

[optiflex]

Originally Posted by tweetybird11208

I don't know anything interesting that i am good at

I really think you should see a professional. You had a boyfriend, didn't you? You have somebody helping you go through school, don't you?

I'm not a professional but I see somebody extremely down on themselves, and isolating. That's not good!

You have interests, you have opinions. Quite feisty ones, sometimes!

[RayinAK]

Every one of us may at times feel that another person is dull, trashy, has no personality, and so forth. But in reality these "feelings" relating to others are seldom true. In fact, there is a good chance that our perceptions of others are just our own (we are seeing ourselves). There is no way for one to realize that another is dull, boring, happy, unhappy, etc., unless one experiences these "feelings" from childhood. So, I could feel that another person is dull (for example), but another person may not feel the same way I do about the same person.

Have you ever seen mothers who simply hate their son or daughter in law, even if her son or daughter is happy and gets along well with the person?

[Yzette]

Originally Posted by tweetybird11208

I have been told I have none.

The response there is, "And you seem to have an overabundance of it. Would you care to share?"

Really. Whoever told you that has the manners--and personality--of a rutting goat.

[RayinAK]

Originally Posted by artsyguy

People get into lousy relationships all the time and they stay in them for the sex and foreplay.

Sometimes yes, sometimes no

[sierraAZ]

You know, maybe you shouldn't worry... or at least as far as marriage is concerned. Many guys seem to prefer "no personality" to "too much personality"! I think had I stayed back in my home country, odds were nobody would marry me. Somehow they liked me as a girlfriend, but didn't want to deal with me as a wife.

[crisan]

Originally Posted by tweetybird11208

I don't know anything interesting that i am good at

I didn't add the word interesting for a reason.

[crisan]

Originally Posted by crisan

I didn't add the word interesting for a reason.

I didn't add the word interesting because people who are insecure tend to look to others for what is interesting. Then you have to be lucky to find that person who won't answer that for you but allow you to determine it for yourself. Even if you do meet them, they probably will annoy you so you move on.

If you have met people who try to answer it for you, they just don't know better. Many times those people are just good at spending money.

I don't know how old you are but it is normal to go through a period where you look to others to validate you. The best outcome is for you to conclude that you will follow the path you choose. The worst outcome is to keep doing what others expect of you. Either way, you have to make the decision, nobody else does that for you.

[beachmel]

Originally Posted by tweetybird11208

In my free time I like to dance and workout, I don't work at the moment still trying to find a job. I am in college and yes I am shy and insecure. The funny thing is I used to live in NY, and used to be loud and social and ahd friends....but when I moved down south I felt alienated and became boring and closed off.

Don't be insecure....please! You have nothing to feel insecure about. Meet new people. Most of them will simply be "acquaintences", however, a few of them may be your new friends. Another aside here...do NOT worry about what others think so much, okay? If you find a couple of people interesting and fun, but others don't, who CARES! Find your niche. Choose what you want to do, what YOUR interests are. Try new things. Go new places. There are people out there who share your interests and because of your youth, there are so many things you haven't tried, so many things you haven't done, so you don't really know what it is that you will like until you step out there.

Oh tweety, please don't worry about whether or not others judge you. Many, many people are just like you....just trying to find a place where they fit into the puzzle. Enjoy life sweetheart. Don't waste one more minute being lonely. Be who you are....and know that that is all you have to be...and that's good enough! Truly!

[Koale]

Go to your nearest Hospital or Clinic and ask to speak to one of their
Coders/Billers...you'll never ask this question again.
Koale