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You seem confused. People are anonymous on line and can be quite candid. Do you really think that men would discuss any of these face to face?
No, these are things that they learn about. Once men learn about shaming language, they are no longer manipulated by it. They realize that it is a sign that a woman has lost an arguement and must resort to such below the belt tactics.
Inexperienced men try a logical approach but at the same time think that they must kiss a$$ to ingratiate themselves with women. For too long, these tactics have worked to stifle legitimate debate.
What these poor suckers don't realize is that just the fact that he must attempt to discuss things rationally and logically means that he is not someone of interest to a woman. Players, alpha types, wealthy men and other desirable men don't face these problems since women want to ingratiate themselves with them.
I have never heard of such a thing. Methinks you have created a little monsoon all of your own.
I have never heard of such a thing. Methinks you have created a little monsoon all of your own.
Google "feminist shaming language".
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The only men who don't care about this are those who regularly get laid by telling women what they want to hear - whether they mean it or not!
Somehow, as a society, we've come to believe that our friends are those who agree with us unconditionally and our enemies are those who disagree with us, no matter how valid and logical are the points they are trying to make. Sure sign of a society in decline.
Republicans and feminists certainly have this in common.
Without forcing you onto those "men's" sites - Yahoo.
The only men who don't care about this are those who regularly get laid by telling women what they want to hear - whether they mean it or not!
Somehow, as a society, we've come to believe that our friends are those who agree with us unconditionally and our enemies are those who disagree with us, no matter how valid and logical are the points they are trying to make. Sure sign of a society in decline.
Republicans and feminists certainly have this in common.
Ime, the men who don't care about it are too busy to care about it. At least the guys I know.
Exactly. They aren't whining to their Momma's because they are involved with real women, working hard in their career or their hobby, well rounded and confident in their role as a man.
Exactly. They aren't whining to their Momma's because they are involved with real women, working hard in their career or their hobby, well rounded and confident in their role as a man.
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Originally Posted by ChessieMom
My ex was basically a controlling selfish jerk that felt that the world should revolve around him. He never made a move to do better, job-wise, until we split up and he had no more meal-ticket to rely on. He has even told me...he never would have made it where he was today, if I had stayed with him and not given him the push he needed. Of course, he's since fallen on hard times with this economy, and though I feel bad for him, he's still the same self-centered control freak that he always was. I was better off the very day I moved into my own home. We simply were not meant to be.
Stuff like this keeps me coming back. Some like watching car wrecks instead....
The only men who don't care about this are those who regularly get laid by telling women what they want to hear - whether they mean it or not!
Somehow, as a society, we've come to believe that our friends are those who agree with us unconditionally and our enemies are those who disagree with us, no matter how valid and logical are the points they are trying to make. Sure sign of a society in decline.
Republicans and feminists certainly have this in common.
Without forcing you onto those "men's" sites - Yahoo.
Wow. That's the biggest load of crap I've read in a while. My personal opinion here, but I think the only ones that care about this are the ones that have serious self-esteem issues and have become intimidated by women to a point that they can no longer function in a relationship. Thank goodness, I know no men like this!
Nah. You've missed my point entirely. My ex is basically good guy. His personality though, is in total conflict with mine, and those conflicts brought out the absolutely worst in him. THAT was my point.
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You guys crack me up.
Probably the Same Guy!
Nah. You've missed my point entirely. My ex is basically good guy. His personality though, is in total conflict with mine, and those conflicts brought out the absolutely worst in him. THAT was my point.
