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Old 07-19-2011, 03:02 PM
 
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No, that's not the problem. The whole unnatural premise of doing that is the problem.

That's not the problem at all. Plenty of women have asked guys out with positive results, some of whom are on this very forum. Do us a favor and please put the "unnatural" and "hardwired" cards back in your wallet.
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Old 07-19-2011, 03:03 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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No, that's not the problem. The whole unnatural premise of doing that is the problem.
Well obviously. It's not very lady-like to ask a guy out. Then again, I am pretty old fashioned when it comes to my ideas about women, no matter what the feminists try to make me believe.
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Old 07-19-2011, 03:14 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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That's not the problem at all. Plenty of women have asked guys out with positive results, some of whom are on this very forum. Do us a favor and please put the "unnatural" and "hardwired" cards back in your wallet.
Fine. You enjoy your success waiting for those mommies who enjoy babying lil' boys and let us know how it goes because there aren't that many of them! Also, what people yap about and how they really feel about it are two different things! Just like many women claim they want this and that, but you don't see them getting that in reality! You know, it's not like they mind short men... they just happened to never have been with one... that's all...
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Old 07-19-2011, 03:42 PM
 
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Fine. You enjoy your success waiting for those mommies who enjoy babying lil' boys and let us know how it goes because there aren't that many of them! Also, what people yap about and how they really feel about it are two different things! Just like many women claim they want this and that, but you don't see them getting that in reality! You know, it's not like they mind short men... they just happened to never have been with one... that's all...

Don't make yourself sound like you're such a catch. And I'm not short, so I have nothing to worry about.
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Old 07-19-2011, 03:45 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Such interesting conclusions...

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Don't make yourself sound like you're such a catch.
Did I even mention anything about myself?

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And I'm not short, so I have nothing to worry about.
I know that. It's just an example, but evidently it flies over your head.
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Old 07-19-2011, 03:48 PM
 
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Did I even mention anything about myself?

You didn't have to. You're arrogant and defensive attitude did all the talking for you. And even if you don't want to make the first move, there's plenty of others that will.
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Old 07-19-2011, 03:55 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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You didn't have to. You're arrogant and defensive attitude did all the talking for you. And even if you don't want to make the first move, there's plenty of others that will.
Fine. You keep waiting for Godot.
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Old 07-20-2011, 04:18 PM
 
Location: Fairfax, VA
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You're funny, boi. If the woman you have the biggest crush on asked you out, you're not turning her down. If Adriana Lima was single and asked me out, I sure as hell am not saying no.
There would be a shift in power/dynamic that you are not taking into account.
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Old 07-23-2011, 04:55 PM
 
Location: Santa Ana
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i'm all for a change in tradition
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