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I KNOW I'm going to catch a lot of crap for this thread but the new threads really got me thinking like the one about the wink and the one about the guy being friendly.
The women posting these just seem desparate to me. Here is why. I am a woman, if a guy looks at me and smiles, or winks or is overly friendly - the last thing I think is that he's "interested" in me LOL I mean seriously - I'm a very confident woman so maybe that has something to do with it but I've had friends telling me that a guy is flat out flirting and I never notice.
Are some women just so overly lacking self confidence that they turn simple gestures into "omg, he must really want me"!
Are some women just so overly lacking self confidence that they turn simple gestures into "omg, he must really want me"!
It has nothing to do with being a woman. Lots of people in general are clueless about social cues. There are plenty of men who think that the waitress or cashier is totally into them because she smiled and said, "have a nice day!"
I KNOW I'm going to catch a lot of crap for this thread but the new threads really got me thinking like the one about the wink and the one about the guy being friendly.
The women posting these just seem desparate to me. Here is why. I am a woman, if a guy looks at me and smiles, or winks or is overly friendly - the last thing I think is that he's "interested" in me LOL I mean seriously - I'm a very confident woman so maybe that has something to do with it but I've had friends telling me that a guy is flat out flirting and I never notice.
Are some women just so overly lacking self confidence that they turn simple gestures into "omg, he must really want me"!
Just curious what my CD friends think...
**Disclaimer: This post is not meant to offend.
You know, considering what's going on out there, I'm not that hard on desperation, but yes, some women do go too far...
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Originally Posted by TaoistDude
I think it largely depends on the "hotness" of the guy.
Ha-ha, exactly! If he's hot, he's confident and interesting; if he isn't, he's a needy creep. Well, it is what it is... It's not like I don't do it myself.
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