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funny old game isn't it - guys want nice girls and girls want bad boys.
whatever happened to just plain old 'normal'?
actually, a lot of it is about wealth and capitalism - this creates a bad attitude, grab what you can mentality - and bad boys project more liklihood of 'getting ahead'
bad boys out where I live are generally looked down upon by women, in this very poor society (Cambodia) - due to the fact that most people have very little, so getting along with people is more important (this is changing though unfortunately)
Okay so here is the deal. All guys say that they want a nice pretty girl. Well let me tell you a little about myself and then all you guys out there can give me some advice. I am tall about 5'10 slendor and toned and I'm not trying to be stuck up but I'm trying to paint you a full picture...I have long blonde hair and hazel eyes I'm attractive. I am very independent and successful. I am a Christian I go to church every sunday and attend various bible studies during the week. I love to go to the beach and I love to play sports and watch sports. I also enjoy surfing and well I guess just about anything outside. So anyways everytime I meet guys they always lie and cheat on me and I don't understand why. I am very kind and generous and take pride in being kind to the people that are around me. I was with a guy for about two years and I loved him very much and I thought that he loved me but he cheated on me a few times. He cheated on me with really nasty women and when I found out and asked him why he couldnt give me a reason. So pretty much every guy that I have ever dated has done me wrong. Is it because I won't sleep with men??? What am I doing wrong? Please help
First of all not to be a wise guy but your comment that you do not sleep with men can mean a lot of things. It can be taken to mean you do sleep with women, or you have never had sex at all. Obviously you must have had sex with the guy you dated for a couple of years and if not then how can you expect a man not to look elsewhere. I feel sex in a real relationship is important but should not be just for the heck of it and with anyone and everyone.
When I was single in my 40's it was just the opposite, I had a hard time finding women to date who did not want to jump into bed on a first date and I was looking for a relationship first before sex but when I was a teenager or even in my 20's then I too would have been happy to jump on every woman out there if given the chance.
I feel you are dating the wrong men or giving off the wrong signals and possibly some men might be intimidated by your looks. You need to find a secure man but one who does not think he is Gods gift to women.
Also if you have been having sex with some of the men you dated long term and they cheated on your anyway, then you might not be satisfying their every need. I do not wish to judge you, so please do not take my comments as that but think about the things that possibly you will not do and maybe learn how to do them or take courses and read about sex since nothing is wrong or dirty when it is between two people who love each other.
If you have never had sex in any relationship, then yes it is probably because of that but if true then I feel you would be a wonderful lady for the right man who could appreciate and respect that about you, I know that when I was single that would have been refreshing to find in a woman living in the US.
Shy guys are much less likely to cheat. It makes common sense but hey if your advice did really happen a lot then there would be less divorces and nice guys would not finish last.
Don't know about that... Just because he's shy doesn't mean he doesn't know how to put himself in situations and places where there's likely to be women approaching HIM.
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