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I didn't grow UP a Jehovah's witness, I married one at 22, divorced 6 months later, lived on the coast and never had TV or internet up there... grew up in a small town where the rules for dating are way different than in the city....
I lived in the city for a while way back then, but never attempted dating because I was working pretty much 24/7, and even at the parties we went to for work peoples boyfreinds weren't allowed to come and there were security guys there and the men were not allowed to hit on us etc...my agent drove me everywhere and was like a guard dog worse than my cousins were etc.... so this is my first time living in the city and being totally UNSUPERVISED..... before I allways had people glaring at everyone behind my back... now I don't... I am flying solo.
This does not match up with some of your earlier threads, but I have to go too. Go back and read what you posted, and you might want to change your story again.
No I was not a stripper..... geesh, they were just homes of famous people and millionares etc.... it wasn't like that for EVERY party, but most in home ones... the ones at venues were less strict, well, except no strangers were aloud in etc..
Even the so called nicest of "nice guys" turn pervy with me too quick...
I don't even use potty words, or talk that way, and have to constantly turn the conversations to more wholesome ground, and well, it is getting quite depressing.
I miss and crave spiritual and intellectual conversation, but don't know what the heck is wrong.
I am wondering with my weight loss if I should get a breast reduction since that seems to be where the conversation allways goes...
And it is NOT the way I dress... it dosen't seem to matter what I wear, but I am seriously starting to consider this if I am ever going to meet a decent guy, with a decent foundation laid down for a relationship, besides just them loving a large chest...
I totally feel you. I don't think its so much your breasts, as it is just being sexually attractive. I'm curvy, but nothing too dramatic, and I've noticed that conversations with men seem to always go back to how I look. Its disappointing. Once I know a guy likes me for who I am, I have no problem with him complementing me on how I look. But for that to be the main draw ... kind of makes me feel like he's really not liking me for ME at all.
So do I think you need a breast reduction? No. You should accept yourself for how you are. The problem is finding a guy that can do the same.
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