she told me i'm a jerk but i dont get it (dating, women)

[Ep-]

so im hanging with this girl ive been dating for a little bit and she mentioned she wanted to do something sunday. i already got plans then and when i told her what she got pissed

im picking up these 2 european nude models to take them to the studio. theres a guy thats gonna teach me to shoot in a studio and im gonna add some new stuff to my photography portfolio. afterwards they are gonna be hungry and its their first time in the US so when dropping them off back in the city i figured id be nice and treat them to a decent dinner somewhere.

so the girl is angry im spending the day with these 2 girls and that im going to dinner with them instead of her. its not like i canceled plans with the girl or anything i just already had plans. and we're not exclusive or anything anyways i dont get why its a big thing. plus its all professional too!

[yankeegirl313]

Reverse the roles...you wouldn`t think she was a jerk then, right?
Meh...ask her to go along!

[Ep-]

nah id just say cool have fun and make plans for another time

[SifuPhil]

If you phrased it exactly as "2 European nude models", I think that would be enough to send Mother Theresa into a killing spree.

Women are like that.

You say you two are not exclusive - does SHE know that? She might have other opinions on that topic...

[Currency Pair Crocodile]

Well, thanks for letting us know. You shoot nude models and you're kewl

[Yzette]

Ep, you need to learn some diplomacy.

"Would you like to do something Sunday?"

"Ooh, sorry. I'm busy Sunday. How about [day that it's good for you]?"

THEN SHUT UP. If you've only been dating a little while and you are not exclusive, you don't need to get into all of the gory details.

[Ep-]

Originally Posted by Avienne

Ep, you need to learn some diplomacy.

"Would you like to do something Sunday?"

"Ooh, sorry. I'm busy Sunday. How about [day that it's good for you]?"

THEN SHUT UP. If you've only been dating a little while and you are not exclusive, you don't need to get into all of the gory details.

if someone asks me what im doing ill tell them. im always honest!

Originally Posted by SifuPhil

You say you two are not exclusive - does SHE know that? She might have other opinions on that topic...

god i hope not. even if we were its not like im having sex with the models or anythign like that

Originally Posted by Antlered Chamataka

Well, thanks for letting us know. You shoot nude models and you're kewl

your welcome bud

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by Ep-

if someone asks me what im doing ill tell them. im always honest!

"I'll be working on Sunday" is also honest. There's no need for all these gory details. Sounds more like bragging.

[ChessieMom]

Originally Posted by Ep-

if someone asks me what im doing ill tell them. im always honest!

Telling someone that you have a prior working engagement would be honest, and it would also be respectful of your gal's feelings. If you feel like you have to give such details, then I'd agree with the "jerk" assessment.

[funymann]

I would have asked her to come along.

What a priceless expression she would make when the two models dropped their towels.

Then I would say, "Surprise!!"

"Your next hon. Changing room is over there."