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There's a personal trainer at my gym that Ive been talking to for about a year. She has a boyfriend, but flirts alot through body language, eye contact, smiling, etc. I get the impression that either she's doing this for attention and/or maybe looking for a new boyfriend. Sometimes I approach her and she could not be friendlier. Other times, she's in "work-out" mode and comes off as rude and not open to talking, which I can relate to. Anyway, she knows Im interested and have been for a while.
There is a rule at my gym that all people must have a workout towel with them for sanitation purposes. Ive been sent home by the front desk before for not bringing one. This girl never uses a towel (you'd think of all people, staff would use one). So, today, I walked by her while she was on a treadmill and asked what happened to her workout towel. She said it was in her office. I then offered to let her borrow my towel and she declined.
This was about 90% intended to be flirtatious by me - I was just trying to joke with her, give her a hard time, etc. She never really sweats and I could care less about it. The other 10% is slightly bothered by the double standard- that Ive been sent home for this and she appears to be above the rules.
Anyway, at the time she didn't appear to take it as a joke. She didn't really laugh even though I said it with a smile on my face.
Was this really poor judgment on my part? Does she have a right to be mad at me in any way? I meant it to be a flirtatious joke, but she did not appear to pick up on my humor.
Yeah she rolled her eyes at me a couple weeks ago after I asked her what she was for Halloween, so it was kinda payback for that (I had been ignoring her until that towel comment).
Of course I was joking when I asked her if she wanted to borrow my towel.
What are the odds she'll have a towel with her tomorrow?
What are the odds I'll be dating her by the end of the year?
Man you're a criminal for stalking an unavailable female. Just do that dude a favour and find another girl in the gym.
Dude you should see how this girl acts. A couple days ago she walked right up to me with her back turned, knew damn well that I was there, and pulled the back of her waistline down a good 3 inches - a good portion of her ass was exposed 3 feet away from my eyes. Once I started a set, she pulled it right back up. Shes been doing stuff just like that for a loooong time. I see her checking out myself and other dudes on a weekly basis. I asked her out a long time ago and she told me she has a BF, which I thought for sure was a lie until I saw the pics on Facebook.
Also, I have a solution for what I did today. When I offered her my towel, it was before my workout. I had just walked on the treadmill for 5 mins to warm up and she knows this. I can easliy tell her that it was a clean towel (cus it was) and it takes away the gross thing and makes me look like a caring guy . Or, I could continue to offer her my towel every time I see her without one, a running joke kind of thing. No pun intended.
What a nice guy I am for offering to let the young lady use my downey fresh work-out towel....
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. Or, I could continue to offer her my towel every time I see her without one, a running joke kind of thing. No pun intended.
