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I know of companies that have a hard time when an executive or a director is seeing someone at the office. I even know one CEO that wanted to get divorced and the Board asked him to remain married for now. (His wife of the time didn't want the divorce.) He was seeing a younger girl at work at the time. Since then he moved on to many younger girls and his wife divorced him.
What I am bringing up is that the man that Mango is "seeing" may have a corporate problem with seeing her and has to protect his job first. Maybe he likes her, maybe it is over, maybe it will be an ongoing thing. Who knows. Every situation is differant.
On a corporate level a deal like that listed above would about to embarrassment and the company paying out lots of money to the ex. If the directors can save that trouble and the money they will.
What will the HR's say!! Ask a relatively simple question, and this is what you get. Mango, kudos to you for putting it out there. Drover, your summation was nicely done.
What will the HR's say!! Ask a relatively simple question, and this is what you get. Mango, kudos to you for putting it out there. Drover, your summation was nicely done.
Putting it out there.... subtle... now we're back to the sex talk!
This is an older thread so perhaps Mango had already moved on, but here is my take on it (barely just glanced at previous replies)
What happened here is that the sexual tension finally had been relieved and it doesn't necessarily mean that he lost interest. All that intense making out is just a build-up to the explosion and then it's just becomes calmer. I guarantee you that if you hadn't seen him for few weeks, you would again find him all heated.
It's not bad or good, it's just is. Everything else is just overanalization.
Okay, I really regret ever posting this thread because it's clear that some people feel they have the right to make assumptions about a stranger based on the sparse details (because I actually VALUE my privacy and the other person's and will never disclose anywhere close to all the details about anything I post on here) they read on a brief forum post. And I get that - after all, you only have what I told you to base your response on. You have no reason to believe that there are additional factors and details in play... some of which highly discount your responses.
My question was more so one in general about male behavior... if it's typical for them to be less "all over you in an extremely all encompassing and urgent manner" after they've came. I assumed it naturally would be since now the "sex blinders" are off and they can relax - but I wanted a second opinion that wasn't a 20 year old guy like the majority of my male friends.
Thanks to those who wrote... loved the funny comments btw. I don't usually post this type of personal info on here and for good reason... people freak out. Haha
And to those who apparently believe that I'm a bad, bad girl and must be a bastion of promiscuity since I obviously post my countless sexual escapades on here, I apologize for tainting your saintly eyes.
That's sarcasm if you can't tell.
Don't be sorry you started the thread, just ignore the religious people and the people whothink you're one of those sad women who are like "we had sex, he loves me now right?" instead of a modern confident person. I think it was a good topic. One that hasn't specifically been brought up while I've been here at least. How are things going now if you don't mind saying?
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That was hilarious.
I think it was a good topic. One that hasn't specifically been brought up while I've been here at least. How are things going now if you don't mind saying?
