Ladies, help your boys to read the signs! (date, conversation, looking)

[onihC]

I thought guessing games were left behind for teenagers. As adults, what happened to straight out communication? It’s not about helping boys guess signs but about helping girls communicate better maybe. Straight messages don't need guessing.

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by onihC

I thought guessing games were left behind for teenagers. As adults, what happened to straight out communication? It’s not about helping boys guess signs but about helping girls communicate better maybe. Straight messages don't need guessing.

its a power play mostly by women to give them the advantage early on plus not putting themselves out there with a chance of rejection..

Some women claim them initiating or being too agressive turned men off when the truth is the guy probably just wasnt that interested in them..

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by Chicago11

Touching is an easy sign to read.

Well, you said touching wasn't easy to read. That's what I responded to.

[Hawk J]

Originally Posted by CoffeeChick

What, you need a line of arrows tattooed from our forehead to the playground?

Sounds like FUn.

[Lucario]

All I know is, I've been on this planet a little while, and I still don't know how to read the signs. I suspect it's because I either don't get them, as in they don't come my way, or I'm totally oblivious to them. It's one or the other.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

If there is one unmistakable sign, it's the touch!

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Exactly. That's why I said that was the dead giveaway.

Originally Posted by Chicago11

If only it was that easy every time or even most of the time!

That was your last comment quoting precisely my previous post above, which was about touching.

[thebobs]

Originally Posted by CoffeeChick

What, you need a line of arrows tattooed from our forehead to the playground?

Sounds like fun. You could use food to do that.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by thebobs

Sounds like fun. You could use food to do that.

Sure, Hansel! We'll drop some bread crumbs. Don't forget what follows, though...

[sportsgeek20]

Question: a lot of people say "touching is THE sign!"
but some women just seem touchy in general, how do I know the difference between a flirt-touch and a joke-flirt-touch?

I often get a flashback a few days later and go "holy **** how did I miss that she was intrested?!?!?!"

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by sportsgeek20

Question: a lot of people say "touching is THE sign!"
but some women just seem touchy in general, how do I know the difference between a flirt-touch and a joke-flirt-touch?

I often get a flashback a few days later and go "holy **** how did I miss that she was intrested?!?!?!"

That's a good question. I guess everybody writes from his/her own perspective. When I say that, I mean normal, regular, respectable women. I suppose there are ho's who do it all the time with everybody. I can't really answer this question.