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Old 02-25-2011, 11:26 AM
 
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Honestly, I don't want to sound all negative but this doesn't cut it. It's too platonic.
OK, I will try being more direct next week then.
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Old 02-25-2011, 11:28 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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I will try to be more direct, but honestly he should have asked me out by now...
Well, what does that tell you?! If he wanted to, he would have. He's not a moron, I assume.

Slow down and get out of your own way, if there is a way at all.
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Old 02-25-2011, 11:32 AM
 
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Well, what does that tell you?! If he wanted to, he would have. He's not a moron, I assume.

Slow down and get out of your own way, if there is a way at all.
Then he is not that into me. I guess.. in any case is really nice to see him every day.
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Old 02-25-2011, 11:33 AM
 
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I can not. We are still working together... he knows! I am super nice to him.... I will try to be more direct, but honestly he should have asked me out by now...

BTW I sent an email asking all the people on the project if they had seen a file. He went and looked for the file for me and did a lot of the cost analysis for me... so cute and helpful LOL
So it's possible that he's not all that attracted to you, right? Not the end of the world. There are more where he came from. By the way, you might think he's Javier Bardem right now, but once you get to know him he could turn into Ryan Seacrest.. (Arbitrary examples above).. There are a lot of times when an attraction only goes one way.. C'est La Vie, but when it is mutual sooner or later in most cases they will have a run at a romance; that's when it begins!
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Old 02-25-2011, 11:34 AM
 
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I know... he is not Javier Bardem though... a little older. LOL

well people go back to topic!
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Old 02-25-2011, 11:35 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Men can be pretty dense at times..... I never get when a woman flirts with me, unless of course, it's really really obvious. Usually its Mrs. Chow who will let me know if a woman likes me..... LOL


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Old 02-25-2011, 11:36 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Then he is not that into me.
Most likely, but you may be ruining things yourself by being way too eager, excited, and by hitting on him too much. There are still men in this world (no matter how much proof to the contrary we get on this forum) and you might've come across one.
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Old 02-25-2011, 11:39 AM
 
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Most likely, but you may be ruining things yourself by being way too eager, excited, and by hitting on him too much. There are still men in this world (no matter how much proof to the contrary we get on this forum) and you might've come across one.
I am not eager or excited or anything. He is the one looking for me. I am pretty aloof when it comes to men.

What I write here does not reflect how I act in real life. By any means.
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Old 02-25-2011, 11:42 AM
 
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To ask a woman on a date or

To be asked on a date?

please be honest
Honest? It would be a pleasant surprise if a woman were to ask me out. I would be honored.
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Old 02-25-2011, 11:44 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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I am not eager or excited or anything. He is the one looking for me. I am pretty aloof when it comes to men.

What I write here does not reflect how I act in real life. By any means.
Then just let him be and let the chips fall where they may.

He might be one of those who need mommy to ask you out for them, who knows...
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