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I'm not exactly averse to being asked for the date. The happiest event of my life was being asked. Sort of. I was kind of asked out by way of a near-command to ask her out. I'd better explain . . .
We were correspondents on an online dating site---well, she reached out to me, first. Incredibly enough, considering all that has transpired since, I kept coming up on her list of prospective matches but she never came up even once on mine.
Then, almost two years ago to the day, I received a comminque through the site's private messaging. She lied about only one thing: she referred to her weakness for tall, dark, and handsome men; I, alas, am tall, dark, and two out of three ain't bad. But she ended her brief but sweet outreach by asking, "Are you ready to take a chance? Let me know." A day later, after a sweet exchange of about five or so more messages between us, she sent a message that included, "Lastly. Grow a spine and ask me out already. Do you really have any doubts left we will get along well enough for a walk or a cup of coffee?"
Ladies and gentlemen, I grew the spine.
And it's turned into complete happiness for two days short of two years and, I am convinced, for every year we have yet to spend together.
That's what they all say at first. We all want the same things. Romance, love, sex, friendship.. I can dig the coy, careful thing to a point, but you are going to waste a lot of time.. While the rest of us, maybe your office love included are out living life, you are going to be waiting... waiting, waiting, and for what? For what reason? No guts no glory is an expression. No guts, no love, no fun, no sex, no adventure.. phew.. no good!
That's what they all say at first. We all want the same things. Romance, love, sex, friendship.. I can dig the coy, careful thing to a point, but you are going to waste a lot of time.. While the rest of us, maybe your office love included are out living life, you are going to be waiting... waiting, waiting, and for what? For what reason? No guts no glory is an expression. No guts, no love, no fun, no sex, no adventure.. phew.. no good!
So you are telling me go and ask him out and SierraAz is telling me not to look desperate... so which one is it?
BTW I am not asking him out. Sorry, feminism did not change biology, he has to come for me.
So you are telling me go and ask him out and SierraAz is telling me not to look desperate... so which one is it?
BTW I am not asking him out. Sorry, feminism did not change biology, he has to come for me.
Carol, Madonna Mia!! You are a woman. I have a feeling an attractive woman. By now you know what men want, that is the game. So give him something to work with, something to convince him without a doubt that you want him. Nobody likes to be shot down, not even big dumb guys. Show him a little thigh, for God's sake, as delectable as they may be, I trust that they are not made of gold. A brush of a hand, a breast gentle against a shoulder, you know what men want.. If he doesn't come in for the kill after that, then just .. move .. on..
BTW I am not asking him out. Sorry, feminism did not change biology, he has to come for me.
So you are a Biologist? Or perhaps a Sociologist, Anthropologist or Historian? Or perhaps you just play one on TV?
It sounds like you have not evolved yet. Perhaps you can find a lesser species to ask you for a date?
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I'm all for it!
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