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Old 07-31-2007, 09:19 AM
 
Location: Indiana
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its hard to get a babsitter for 3 kids but it happens everyonce in a while but we normally end up just catching up on sleep. and we do normally fall asleep in each others arms which is nice. That doesnt happen to often during the week. but i will survive and get by until she is ready.

 
Old 07-31-2007, 09:23 AM
 
Location: NJ for now
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and we do normally fall asleep in each others arms which is nice. That doesnt happen to often during the week. but i will survive and get by until she is ready.
That is atleast a good feeling to have. Well just hang in there.
 
Old 07-31-2007, 09:26 AM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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pregnancy and nursing aside, I don't understand why many married couples don't make love to each other, or rarely do. it boggles my mind...
 
Old 07-31-2007, 09:29 AM
 
Location: NJ for now
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pregnancy and nursing aside, I don't understand why many married couples don't make love to each other, or rarely do. it boggles my mind...
This topic came up when I was with the guys over the weekend. Seems that in the beginning of any relationship, the sex is great, no matter what the age is because it is new. Then after marriage, for some reason or another. The sex is repeatative or becomes boring as I have heard from females.
 
Old 07-31-2007, 09:35 AM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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This topic came up when I was with the guys over the weekend. Seems that in the beginning of any relationship, the sex is great, no matter what the age is because it is new. Then after marriage, for some reason or another. The sex is repeatative or becomes boring as I have heard from females.
but there's a million and one ways to spice it up...
 
Old 07-31-2007, 09:37 AM
 
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All the spice in the world won't do it for you if all you want is 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep.
 
Old 07-31-2007, 09:40 AM
 
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That makes me tired just thinking about it. Any chance of getting away for a weekend, or even one evening? And, you sound like a great guy, but since you both work full time, do you feel like you're doing 50% of the housework and childcare? If she's resentful about anything she's not going to feel romantic.
I think Marlow has a great point here! Not pointing fingers at any men in paticular, but it's important to step up and chip in on the wife's chores. Talk about a turn on...Seeing my BF do laundry or cleaning house is awesome. It also frees up my time to be ME. Not just a wife or a mother but a woman. It's a novel idea! I can take a bath, relax or even a nap...freeing the mind allowing the body to follow.
 
Old 07-31-2007, 09:41 AM
 
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Also, if you work all day and come home and spend the evening cooking dinner, cleaning up, bathing kids, overseeing homework, doing laundry, etc., etc., etc., finally falling into bed at 11:00, may God protect the spouse who comes to bed with a gleam in his/her eye. And if he/she has been watching television or playing video games all evening....sheesh.
 
Old 07-31-2007, 09:44 AM
 
Location: NJ for now
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pregnancy and nursing aside, I don't understand why many married couples don't make love to each other, or rarely do. it boggles my mind...
I know that. But both parties need to know that to do that.
 
Old 07-31-2007, 10:01 AM
 
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If we could just speak to the EVERYONE about the art of love, the world would be a better place. I imagine that if everyone was getting the nookie they needed, there would be less road rage, less anger and overall happier peoples!
I must have fallen and bumped my head....what fantasy island am I on now?
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