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Wow I am so jealous of all of you who even have sex. I am in my second marriage (my husband's 1st) and we hardly ever have sex (once every 2 or 3 months) and when we do I have to ask. Most people consider me to be very attractive and I know that I have to be nice, kind, and encouraging to him to make sure he can get in the mood but after about a month and a half without sex, I get angry. In his defense, we both work full-time, attend school full-time, and have 3 girls at home. In my 1st marriage, I hardly ever wanted to be intimate because I was always running behind my little girls (they are all roughly 2 years apart). I was drained physically and emotionally by the time I did get to lay down at night. He was unfaithful but I don't take the blame. These were his kids too, he could have helped more and I would have had time, energy, and the desire to be with him. Anyhoo, now my husband says he doesn't want to be intimate when the girls are at home (they stay with their dad every other weekend). On our weekends alone, we often don't get around to it. It has been two months now, and if I mention it today we could be together today but I don't want to have to always ask for it. I'm tired of going through this every two or three months.
Wow, my hubby and I are in our early 30's and Im going crazy. He never initiates in so im down to maybe 2x a month and ready to explode with tension!!!
you know let me ask for those of you who don't have or rarely have sex and are married.
Do you take care of business otherwise?Or you just don't have a urge to burst one at all?
I can't fathom not bursting one on a regular basis,though I can understand not wanting to do your other every single day.Or,at least not full blown sex with your other all the time but maybe a handful help or lip service sometimes instead.
when i was married and things were good, minium of 3 times a day, maxium of 6 for months... 30 mins to an 1hr 30 mins.
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