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How about asking him if he'd wanna do a threesome with his gf and you? This could put some much-needed spice back into your sex life and once he saw you have a sexy wild side he might not any longer feel the need to stray.
IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT...you did nothing wrong and from what you have stated you had no clue because you "trusted" him...
I find it hard to believe that there were no indicators however I am suspicious by nature and usually question everything...however you seem to be very trusting and as if there was no changes in your marriage during his infidelity..
What to do?
Hmmm...well you have stated that you love him but do not like him or rather his choices..So I am going to assume that DIVORCE is out of the question?
I would state my opinions but I know you would not like to hear them at this time so I will state is this.." If you can sit down in a quiet placeand close your eyes remove all of the mundane that is day to day life and ask yourselves these questions or better yet your wants and needs what would you do?"
1. What did I sign up for when I said I do?"
2. Do I deserve a man whom is going to share this journey with me and only me?
3. Do I deserve to haveto share my husband with another woman?
4. Do I deserve to have stability and monogamy in my marriage?
5. Am I getting back what I am putting in the marriage?
Personally speaking I approach everything with this mindset.." If I am working harder than you to reach a common goal or to achieve something that is beneficial for the both of us?" "We have a problem"
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