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Yeah, older. But relationship implies more than a couple 'hits'. Not hard to hit one. It's when one has 'expectations' that you are unaware of. But you will see in time.
Met a couple who live near me a few weeks ago, and they indicated they were swingers. I enjoy sex, but really like having an emotional connection to the woman I'm having it with. After having a few great relationships, not having a connection makes the sex empty and boring for me. And no I wouldn't do the MMF tag team.
Anyhow the female of said couple has made passes at me and another guy I know, at separate times. I have waived it off, but the other guy seems to be taking the bait. He is late 20s, she is early 30s. I know they are both adults but after a few drinks I mentioned to him, that it may not be a good idea to hit that. (She was alone this time) He seemed taken aback and asked why. I just said take it as advice from old bull to young bull. He wasn't happy.
They are both adults so I won't say anything else about it. But anyone think this is a good idea?
People who are used for another couple's pleasure.
People who are used for another couple's pleasure.
Something really vampirish about that to me.
Why would that be vampirish? If the guy being 'used' is also using the couple for pleasure then what is wrong with that? Isn't sex all about pleasure? Unless there is rape involved then it is there business since they are grown adults.
It would be fine if there were people in my neigborhood we could do this with, but, if you saw who lived in my neighborhood you wood know why this doesn't work......
Yes, yes. Former Marine and I have had my fair share of relationship drama. But the VAST majority of my former flings have been hit it, quit it, and never admit it. No stalkers, slashed tires, or death threats like that other guy makes all flings to be like. And theres a reason why we all know about the crazy astronaut lady. Because they are so rare and extraordinary that they are news worthy. Stuff like that don't happen everyday. So I guess if all your flings end up in drama, I guess you just need to take a look at the mirror yourself...
Ah, vast majority....an interesting choice of words.
I would state again that a starving man will eat a 3-day old hamburger.
Someone with options will go for steak.
I will be having steak yet again tonight.
Let's remember the debate, we BOTH agree that if the guy wants to hit it then that's his choice. Where we disagree is that as the guys friend we might want to caution him if he's "starving" or just makes poor decisions.
Yes, yes. Former Marine and I have had my fair share of relationship drama. But the VAST majority of my former flings have been hit it, quit it, and never admit it. No stalkers, slashed tires, or death threats like that other guy makes all flings to be like. And theres a reason why we all know about the crazy astronaut lady. Because they are so rare and extraordinary that they are news worthy. Stuff like that don't happen everyday. So I guess if all your flings end up in drama, I guess you just need to take a look at the mirror yourself...
Ah, vast majority....an interesting choice of words.
I would state again that a starving man will eat a 3-day old hamburger.
Someone with options will go for steak.
I will be having steak yet again tonight.
Let's remember the debate, we BOTH agree that if the guy wants to hit it then that's his choice. Where we disagree is that as the guys friend we might want to caution him if he's "starving" or just makes poor decisions.
Ugh. Who cares anymore. I would just say '"Mind yo' business"....
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But you will see in time.
