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The entire question is fatuous. So the magical cut off is 23 years of age of virginity. You meet a girl who is 24 or 26 and you've already decided, "I don't bonk babes past 23," so you're up the creek without a paddle. Wise move... NOT.
Take life as it comes. If some hot 40 year old virgin wants you, why on earth are you going to say no?
The entire question is fatuous. So the magical cut off is 23 years of age of virginity. You meet a girl who is 24 or 26 and you've already decided, "I don't bonk babes past 23," so you're up the creek without a paddle. Wise move... NOT.
23 was just an example of a number I have heard some guys say is "too old" for a girl to be a virgin. It's definitely subjective and everyone feels differently about it, which is why I asked.
Whether or not a person has ever had sex has absolutely no impact on their physical appearance so I find the question to be meaningless. Physical beauty is based entirely on the roll of the dice genetically. If your parents were tall, very good looking, and happened to possess those physical qualities that we all instinctively recognize as desireable than your chances of inheriting those same traits are very good. If, on the other hand, your parents look like they were raised by wolves your odds are going to be much worse. Unfortunately, even though both of my parents were good looking I took after the family dog. These things happen.
I disagree. There is more to being attracted to someone than looks alone. There is personality, sexiness,etc. I am a nice guy myself but I have never been especially attracted to wholesome good girl types. I wouldn't have interest in a virgin.
I'm thinking anyone who is reading this and is "saving herself" is probably going to take offense to your reducing it to "bull*****"
I'm just sayin...
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No but seriously;
If someone is saving themselves, and think it's gonna be this "special, beautiful thing between two people who love each other" etc... well nice dream, but when you've been boning each other to romantic music on some animal fur in front of the fireplace in moonlight 15 times it's not gonna be that special anymore anyway.
Besides for many the first time wont even be that special. All I see is wasted potential lay-time.
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If I was into her enough to sleep with her in the first place, yeah.
The main thing is that I've deflowered virgins before:
1. The sex is almost uniformly bad.
2. Even if they're really, really into it, there's a lot of "!!!" moments the first few goes around because it hurts or they are worried it's gonna hurt.
3. There's a good chance they're deeply spiritual. If you ever want to see me go from the nicest guy out there to the most obstinate guy out there in record time, ask me to go to church with you more than once.
4. Sex =/> engagement ring = you're good as married = why did you buy new dishes for my apartment?
I'd certainly consider it if I'd gotten that far with her, but I generally find it easier to get with women who are a bit more experienced.
You sound like a real tool, a tool who is good at manipulation!
Nothing wrong with virgins as long she's not saving it for marriage. I'll like a woman to appreciate or view sex the way I do. Saving yourself for marriage is crazy IMO.
My offending knows no race, way of life, religion or otherwise; I'm an equal opportunity offender!
^^^^^ I love this!!!!
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No but seriously;
If someone is saving themselves, and think it's gonna be this "special, beautiful thing between two people who love each other" etc... well nice dream, but when you've been boning each other to romantic music on some animal fur in front of the fireplace in moonlight 15 times it's not gonna be that special anymore anyway.
Besides for many the first time wont even be that special. All I see is wasted potential lay-time.
I agree. I posted this in the thread that got locked.
All it takes for a satisfying sexual experience is mutual sexual attraction & physical compatibility. Jus Sayin. All this romantic talk about losing your virginity with the one you love are just added bonuses IMO. I guess classy people don't engage in one-night-stands. I never aspired to be classy anyway.
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