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Old 03-14-2011, 03:30 PM
 
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Are you kidding me? Millions and millions of women are single mothers that have no financial support because the men just up and left. Left their children to fend for themselves. They could care less.
That's because the dads are required to pay child support but they don't.

I just did some research on giving up all parental rights and it looks like that's not foolproof either (just like birth control...noticing a pattern?)

And what about the man's perspective. Millions and millions of men get someone pregnant, don't want to become a dad, but the mom has the baby anyway.

 
Old 03-14-2011, 03:40 PM
 
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This kid loves talking about himself... please ignore him. He won't listen to anything you have to say.
 
Old 03-14-2011, 03:43 PM
 
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A poster said I live in fear because I'm afraid of sex.

But really, if I had sex, I would be living in fear. If I had sex, I would constantly be afraid I got her pregnant. That's no way to live. That's why I don't have sex.

The point is I don't live in fear. I avoid sex in order to avoid living in fear.
 
Old 03-14-2011, 03:48 PM
 
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Have you ever heard of a vasectomy?
 
Old 03-14-2011, 03:57 PM
 
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Have you ever heard of a vasectomy?
He has, as well as her getting a hysterectomy AND then using birth control on top of that.

It's not good enough for him. (At least that's what he says.)

Honestly, I think he just likes all the attention he's getting.
 
Old 03-14-2011, 04:12 PM
 
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That's because the dads are required to pay child support but they don't.

I just did some research on giving up all parental rights and it looks like that's not foolproof either (just like birth control...noticing a pattern?)

And what about the man's perspective. Millions and millions of men get someone pregnant, don't want to become a dad, but the mom has the baby anyway.
True. It goes both ways of either a man or woman being deceitful concerning children.
 
Old 03-14-2011, 04:14 PM
 
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A poster said I live in fear because I'm afraid of sex.

But really, if I had sex, I would be living in fear. If I had sex, I would constantly be afraid I got her pregnant. That's no way to live. That's why I don't have sex.

The point is I don't live in fear. I avoid sex in order to avoid living in fear.
But don't you think your way of thinking is alittle off?
 
Old 03-14-2011, 05:07 PM
 
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He has, as well as her getting a hysterectomy AND then using birth control on top of that.

It's not good enough for him. (At least that's what he says.)

Honestly, I think he just likes all the attention he's getting.
That's what I've been saying! Thread after thread same dribble and people kept thinking that they can "help" him when he really doesn't want any but validation for his undeveloped view in human relations

They know it's the same pattern with this kid. I think they like wasting time with his threads because they're bored which is pretty masochistic.
 
Old 03-14-2011, 05:09 PM
 
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This kid loves talking about himself... please ignore him. He won't listen to anything you have to say.
As the kids used to say.

Word.

 
Old 03-14-2011, 05:33 PM
 
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You are making excuses.

If you don't want kids, then don't have sex with someone who can become pregnant.

There are plenty of younger women who for medical reasons cannot reproduce.

If you have such an aversion to reproducing I think there could be an underlying mental health issue that you have. Because you have an irrational fear of reproducing.
Nah. He's just irrational.
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