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Old 03-28-2011, 06:36 AM
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At 60, there's no such thing as an attractive person
at 60 you have alot more free time to party and a lot more money, and a lot less responsibility than your average 25 year old who is going to be in the rat race for at least another 25 years.
who wants to be young broke , good looking and working 40 hours a week?
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Old 03-28-2011, 07:17 AM
 
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at 60 you have alot more free time to party and a lot more money, and a lot less responsibility than your average 25 year old who is going to be in the rat race for at least another 25 years.
who wants to be young broke , good looking and working 40 hours a week?
Me! As long as I was good looking it would make a world of entire difference.
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Old 03-28-2011, 08:36 AM
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Me! As long as I was good looking it would make a world of entire difference.
I can remember being young good looking and broke I felt like a Ferari on a ten foot track
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Old 03-28-2011, 09:32 AM
 
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at 60 you have alot more free time to party and a lot more money, and a lot less responsibility than your average 25 year old who is going to be in the rat race for at least another 25 years.
who wants to be young broke , good looking and working 40 hours a week?
I don't know about that. A lot of people can't afford to retire at 60 these days.

As for a lot less responsibility, that's not true either. A lot of 25 year olds these days live with their parents. A 60 year old has likely been responsible and self-supporting for decades.

If a 25 year old is broke, they should live with their parents so the parents can help them out with expenses. That being said, there are 25 year olds that are attractive, make a decent income, and work 40 hours a week doing something they love. That sounds good to me.
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Old 03-28-2011, 12:58 PM
 
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Fair enough. But you'll have to become the type of man whom those young women will find attractive.
And if he has a lot of money, a cool luxurious sporty car, etc. Believe me, lots and lots of women young and old will find him "attractive" .
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Old 03-28-2011, 04:57 PM
 
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And if he has a lot of money, a cool luxurious sporty car, etc. Believe me, lots and lots of women young and old will find him "attractive" .
Well, it sounds like he judges a woman's attractiveness on an equally shallow scale. His shallowness is not more honorable, don't you agree? They'll both get what they are looking for and everybody's happy (at least until she grows older).
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Old 03-28-2011, 04:59 PM
 
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Well, it sounds like he judges a woman's attractiveness on an equally shallow scale. They'll both get what they are looking for and everybody's happy.
Come on, you married a guy who, according to you, took you out to expensive restaurants, overspent on flowers and chocolate, bought you a car for your birthday, etc. You have also said that a guy that doesn't spend money on his girl is not showing her he loves her, he's not showing manly traits, among many other things.

A man's money, car, degree/career, etc. is a plus for women as much as a woman's looks is for a man.
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Old 03-28-2011, 09:57 PM
 
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My husband is a generous person who enjoys giving to the people he loves (not just me, but his friends, family and people in need). He has been lucky in life and he believes in sharing what he has with others.

I don't know why that bothers you so much. I don't know why you have decided to demonize me for the crime of falling in love with him, nor do I care.

You are like a gnat that I can't seem to swat away. Go your own way and live the type of life you have chosen for yourself. Shoo!

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Old 03-29-2011, 03:46 PM
 
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My husband is a generous person who enjoys giving to the people he loves (not just me, but his friends, family and people in need). He has been lucky in life and he believes in sharing what he has with others
And many women feel attracted to “generou$” men. Why is it somewhat embarrassing for women to admit that? People keep saying men want sex blah blah blah, fine, can’t deny that. Women are interested in men who are a level above them (more money, nicer car, bigger place, etc.) can't deny that either.

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I don't know why that bothers you so much. I don't know why you have decided to demonize me for the crime of falling in love with him, nor do I care
It doesn’t bother me. I am just pointing out that a man’s money is another characteristic of a man that attracts women just like men go to those who attract their eyes. Do we agree on this or not?
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Old 03-29-2011, 03:51 PM
 
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Ofcourse money buys tons of sex and relationships with multiple hot girls. Do you think a beautiful attractive woman would have sex with Cheech Marin for example because she thinks he is a sexy hunk of beef who is in the same league as Matthew McConaughey when it comes to looks ? Hell no, she would have sex with him because he made millions of dollars making stoner movies with Chong.
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