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I have a related question for the guys. So say you were casually dating a girl, then you had sex with her (rather soon, say, after the 6th date), what would be the reason you didn't call her back (considering you don't look down upon girls that have sex)?
I think that sex for anyone outside of their serious relationship or marriage is rather distasteful and dishonorable- what's the point of those things if you're going to have sex outside the relationship? Isn't that kind of the point? To share experiences and intimacy with another person whom you care for deeply?
I also don't really understand a lot of promiscuity, either- hook-ups can be fun, until you realize that you have nobody you can just "hang out" with, that all the numbers in your phone are just random booty calls.
Goes for both sexes. That said, people will do what they want, and I suppose I can respect that too. It's just not for me and not my nature.
I'm not endorsing any opinion here, but I find the topic to be quite interesting.
Men, do you look down upon women who have sex outside of marriage or outside of a serious relationship? If you knew a woman had been around, would you still try to persue a serious relationship with her, or would you try to avoid getting anything going besides a little fling?
I'd only look down on a girl for that if she was having sex outside of a relationship or marriage while IN a relationship or marriage.
Alternatively, if she wasn't responsible about protection (both regarding STDs and pregnancy).
If she's keeping safe and not cheating on anyone I really fail to see where there's a problem though.
If she's been around a bit, I wouldn't mind. I'd only start to care a little if she had a kid along the way, had a std, or did it while I was dating her.
For me, it depends on who she chooses in a partner. Personally, I can't stand it when an otherwise decent girl sleeps with some elitist snob, drug addict/dealer, wannabe gangsta, entitle prick, or general douchebag who thinks he's God's gift to women. It reminds me of that old Joe Jackson song, "Is She Really Going Out With Him?"
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