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View Poll Results: Do you look down upon women who have sex?
Yes, if it's casual sex 18 26.87%
Yes, if it's outside of a serious relationship 15 22.39%
Yes, if it's outside of marriage 10 14.93%
No, unless she had a well known negative reputation 7 10.45%
No, it doesn't matter to me at all 32 47.76%
Other (specify) 8 11.94%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 67. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 05-10-2011, 09:43 AM
 
Location: Where Dance Music comes first
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Sex is meant for two people who have deep feelings and are in love. It's not meant just to get off.
Says who?
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Old 05-10-2011, 09:46 AM
 
Location: NY
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I don't look down on women who have sex with multiple partners. My SO when she was younger had a fair amount of casual sex with multiple partners (which she is not proud of either). If I looked down on her for that, it would be impossible to be with her! Luckily, she is healthy and didn't have anything bad happen to her (like catching an std) through that part of her life.
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Old 05-10-2011, 09:54 AM
 
Location: America
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Sex is meant for two people who have deep feelings and are in love. It's not meant just to get off.
Well if that's your take on it, why not just say that sex should only be for those who are married?

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You're the one who brought them up, lol.
Yeah, I did, but that's not to say that they have them.

Yes, promiscuity applies to both men and women, but for different reasons. You can't convince me (or most people) for one second that the average woman has as strong an appetite for random copulation as the average man does.

Most of the women I know seem to have no real problem going somewhat long periods of time without sexual activity. Show me a man that's gone more than a month without sex and I'll show you a man on the brink of insanity.
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Old 05-10-2011, 10:26 AM
 
Location: USA
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Well if that's your take on it, why not just say that sex should only be for those who are married?

"And they will be married in my house of worship or it will not be valid"

David Karesh 1990

I'm being facetious on the quote but people putting their morality on others is so subjective (and typically hypocritical) they will always be wrong. When I was younger and for more naive I used to think the same way.


Note" The percentages in the poll equal more than 100%????

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Old 05-10-2011, 10:36 AM
 
Location: America
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"And they will be married in my house of worship or it will not be valid"

David Karesh 1990

I'm being facetious on the quote but people putting their morality on others is so subjective (and typically hypocritical) they will always be wrong. When I was younger and for more naive I used to think the same way.
What I'm essentially asking that poster is that if you believe that sex should be for those in love, why not just say it's for spouses?
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Old 05-10-2011, 02:58 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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And you are my father or something?? Who are you to tell me what's right and wrong for me?? Sex is sex..Making love is something completely different. IF you can't see the difference between that, then that's your problem..
If you can't see that those are my beliefs and get defensive over them then that is YOUR problem not mine. I personally don't have a problem.
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Old 05-10-2011, 03:04 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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What I'm essentially asking that poster is that if you believe that sex should be for those in love, why not just say it's for spouses?
Not everybody believes in marriage or sometimes "can't" be married. Totally different subject that I'm not getting into.
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Old 05-10-2011, 03:08 PM
 
Location: America
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Not everybody believes in marriage or sometimes "can't" be married. Totally different subject that I'm not getting into.
...And not everybody believes in sex being for those in relationships. Technically, sex is meant for reproduction.
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Old 05-10-2011, 03:11 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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...And not everybody believes in sex being for those in relationships. Technically, sex is meant for reproduction.
and people are entitled to their own beliefs and opinions. Good luck
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Old 05-10-2011, 03:14 PM
 
Location: Forests of Maine
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...And not everybody believes in sex being for those in relationships. Technically, sex is meant for reproduction.
Reproduction is not the only purpose of sex.

Sex is a multi-purposed exercise.
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