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View Poll Results: Do you look down upon women who have sex?
Yes, if it's casual sex 18 26.87%
Yes, if it's outside of a serious relationship 15 22.39%
Yes, if it's outside of marriage 10 14.93%
No, unless she had a well known negative reputation 7 10.45%
No, it doesn't matter to me at all 32 47.76%
Other (specify) 8 11.94%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 67. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 05-09-2011, 03:59 PM
 
Location: Way up high
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Whats the big deal as long as they are using protection and aren't doing it behind their partners backs??? Men do it ALL THE TIME!! Why can't us women???
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Old 05-09-2011, 04:22 PM
 
Location: Forests of Maine
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Whats the big deal as long as they are using protection and aren't doing it behind their partners backs??? Men do it ALL THE TIME!! Why can't us women???
Really?

Men haver sex 'all the time' without women?
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Old 05-09-2011, 04:34 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Really?

Men haver sex 'all the time' without women?
I wasn't looking at porn, I swear! I was in C-D Relationships!
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Old 05-09-2011, 04:45 PM
 
Location: The High Seas
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Do you look down upon women who have sex?
Sometimes I look down on them. Sometimes I look up at them, but most of the time I just see the backs of their heads.
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Old 05-10-2011, 02:40 AM
 
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I have no idea if a female would ever go back to a previous boyfriend.

However I disagree with the idea of females lacking any desire to sow wild oats. I do recall having seen ladies [from a distance] who appeared to have been fairly promiscuous.

I think that either gender can be in such a mindset as to be desirous of multiple partners.
I agree.

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Since when do women have oats?
You're the one who brought them up, lol.
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Old 05-10-2011, 03:03 AM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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Not ALL men have sex with lots of different partners. Women use that stereotype as an excuse to act promiscuous when they know deep down that it's wrong. It is not right to sleep with lots of different people no matter what sex you are. Sex is meant for two people who have deep feelings and are in love. It's not meant just to get off.

I am tired of the "Well, men do it tooooooo!" excuse.
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Old 05-10-2011, 03:15 AM
 
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Not ALL men have sex with lots of different partners. Women use that stereotype as an excuse to act promiscuous when they know deep down that it's wrong. It is not right to sleep with lots of different people no matter what sex you are. Sex is meant for two people who have deep feelings and are in love. It's not meant just to get off.

I am tired of the "Well, men do it tooooooo!" excuse.
Promiscuity is really something that both men and women can be regardless of gender. As you said, not all men have sex with different partners, and this also applies to women.
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Old 05-10-2011, 03:23 AM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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Promiscuity is really something that both men and women can be regardless of gender. As you said, not all men have sex with different partners, and this also applies to women.
I never said it wasn't. I said it was wrong for BOTH. I do think it's funny how this topic always turns around to how its a double standard because men do it all the time. It's an excuse to get away from personal and moral responsibility.
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Old 05-10-2011, 03:29 AM
 
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I never said it wasn't. I said it was wrong for BOTH. I do think it's funny how this topic always turns around to how its a double standard because men do it all the time. It's an excuse to get away from personal and moral responsibility.
I did get what you were saying.
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Old 05-10-2011, 09:26 AM
 
Location: Way up high
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Not ALL men have sex with lots of different partners. Women use that stereotype as an excuse to act promiscuous when they know deep down that it's wrong. It is not right to sleep with lots of different people no matter what sex you are. Sex is meant for two people who have deep feelings and are in love. It's not meant just to get off.

I am tired of the "Well, men do it tooooooo!" excuse.

And you are my father or something?? Who are you to tell me what's right and wrong for me?? Sex is sex..Making love is something completely different. IF you can't see the difference between that, then that's your problem..
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