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Old 05-17-2011, 11:38 AM
 
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Skank....no, Shes flattered by the attention. His wife has choices as well, she knows hes not going anywhere. I don't know why either one of these women would want him, hes addicted to the ego boost.
I'm completely at loss on how we got to this point. If you read my first post, you'll realize I that the only feedback I'm interested in is on the consequences I may face if I was to do it, that's all. Not to be rude, but I really don't care for all these other opinions that you have been busy giving out.
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Old 05-17-2011, 11:46 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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I'm completely at loss on how we got to this point. If you read my first post, you'll realize I that the only feedback I'm interested in is on the consequences I may face if I was to do it, that's all. Not to be rude, but I really don't care for all these other opinions that you have been busy giving out.
Really. look back and read your posts. Hes a married coworker/supervisor and theres consequences personally and professionally. The truth hurts doesn't it?
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Old 05-17-2011, 11:46 AM
 
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I'm completely at loss on how we got to this point. If you read my first post, you'll realize I that the only feedback I'm interested in is on the consequences I may face if I was to do it, that's all. Not to be rude, but I really don't care for all these other opinions that you have been busy giving out.
then don't post your private business on here, i'm not quite sure what you were expecting. You know that posters are not going to JUST answer what you want them to answer, they are going to look at the whole picture obviously.
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Old 05-17-2011, 12:27 PM
 
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I'm completely at loss on how we got to this point. If you read my first post, you'll realize I that the only feedback I'm interested in is on the consequences I may face if I was to do it, that's all. Not to be rude, but I really don't care for all these other opinions that you have been busy giving out.
My teenage daughter knows the consequences to bad behavior. Really don't you think sleeping with your married boss would be a bad idea?

I wouldn't even sleep with my single boss or single co-workers. Keep pleasure out of work. My professional and personal life are separate and always will be.
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Old 05-17-2011, 01:24 PM
 
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then don't post your private business on here, i'm not quite sure what you were expecting. You know that posters are not going to JUST answer what you want them to answer, they are going to look at the whole picture obviously.
I can post whatever I want as long as I respect C-D rules, which every one of us should. How about applying for that moderator role before telling me what I can and cannot post, mmh? Anyway, moving on..
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Old 05-17-2011, 01:29 PM
 
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My teenage daughter knows the consequences to bad behavior. Really don't you think sleeping with your married boss would be a bad idea?

I wouldn't even sleep with my single boss or single co-workers. Keep pleasure out of work. My professional and personal life are separate and always will be.
Appreciate your honesty, Donie. More like the kind of feedback I am looking for. Frank without being disrespectful.
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Old 05-17-2011, 01:35 PM
 
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Really. look back and read your posts. Hes a married coworker/supervisor and theres consequences personally and professionally. The truth hurts doesn't it?
Yes, he is, so? I'm sure you are a good person and probably mean well, Virgode, but you have terrible communications skills.
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Old 05-17-2011, 01:39 PM
 
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I can post whatever I want as long as I respect C-D rules, which every one of us should. How about applying for that moderator role before telling me what I can and cannot post, mmh? Anyway, moving on..
wow, you totally misread what I wrote, my point is that dont complaint about the 'negative feedback' or 'why aren't posters answering my exact question?' once you put it out there, people will post and sometimes pick parts of your post apart and focus on one thing, and in this case its negative for obvious reasons, so dont come back complaining about the feedback you are getting, because YOU are the one that presented yourself in this way. Did you expect to come on here and say that you were going to try and sleep with a married man (and your boss) and not get flack for it? So by all means continue to post, I never said not to, just don't complain about the responses thats all.
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Old 05-17-2011, 02:01 PM
 
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wow, you totally misread what I wrote, my point is that dont complaint about the 'negative feedback' or 'why aren't posters answering my exact question?' once you put it out there, people will post and sometimes pick parts of your post apart and focus on one thing, and in this case its negative for obvious reasons, so dont come back complaining about the feedback you are getting, because YOU are the one that presented yourself in this way. Did you expect to come on here and say that you were going to try and sleep with a married man (and your boss) and not get flack for it? So by all means continue to post, I never said not to, just don't complain about the responses thats all.
Wow, you totally misunderstood what I meant. I have nothing against negative feedback as long as they are presented in a respectful manner. Don't talk to me like I'm a little confused kid because I'm not. Donnie's last post wasn't in favor of me, but I appreciate what she had to say especially because it was not presented in a disrespectful manner like yours and Virgode's. Grown up individuals will always do what they want to do, whether you like it or not. Just offer your opinion then move along.
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Old 05-17-2011, 03:04 PM
 
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Wow, you totally misunderstood what I meant. I have nothing against negative feedback as long as they are presented in a respectful manner. Don't talk to me like I'm a little confused kid because I'm not. Donnie's last post wasn't in favor of me, but I appreciate what she had to say especially because it was not presented in a disrespectful manner like yours and Virgode's. Grown up individuals will always do what they want to do, whether you like it or not. Just offer your opinion then move along.
MissLucky,

I think many people meet for the first time and they get their bells rung. I just started a new job and I have many ladies talking to me and asking my name, calling me handsome and stuff.

We all have those feeling I suppose. Getting all excited over someone.

The past few weeks there have been female employees saying such things as, "Did you miss me?" In my head I am thinking, "Who are you?" Simple crushes I suppose. They will eventually fuse out.

I don't know, I think maybe you should rent 27 dresses. (The movie)

She has a crush for her boss but really it is nothing.

Hope it all works out for you k?
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