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I been having problem of how deal with the most attractive women I have ever met in my life! From the first time I saw her months back I was astrounded. Just the way she walks gives off such sexual vibes! She looks quite attractive usually and when she dress up its like she makes me instantly hard! I know she is older than me (probably 5-10 years older) but seems so much hotter than girls I know my age (26). It can be hard to get her off my mind.
Of course, that's just the start of the problem. As mentioned, she is manager at my work, though not directly over me. And she is married. This means, she is off limits for me. But, honestly I get excited and nervous when I have to discuss a problem with her. I will admit, sometimes I directly talk to her in order to get help when I could have asked someone who worked for her. The fact that I sit in same area as her and see her multiple times each workday really doesn't help. I just keep on telling myself there nothing I can do but get a few glimpses of her around the work place...
OP, at least you have a reason to go to work everyday, although "getting hard" at 26 from just looking at a woman makes me wonder. Isn't that something teenagers experience? But then again, I am not a man, so what do I know.
Oh, no......its just physical attraction baby!!!!!!
Nothing you can do. Just sit with your tongue hanging out. LOL
Don't worry, she may move jobs....she may split up with her hubby......you may meet a girl and fall in love and this lady will be history. ALL things must pass, this too, will pass.
I been having problem of how deal with the most attractive women I have ever met in my life!
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Appears to be purely a physical attraction. It really isn't a problem. This is an issue that everyone has had the opportunity (misfortune?) to be involved from time-to-time - or if one hasn't, one will. As she is married and a supervisor, I figure that in this case there's nothing you can do about it. I would not advocate making any radical changes in your interaction with her since none of what you're doing seems particularly damaging personally or professionally. Continue (try?) to associate with her in a respectful and professional manner and enjoy the view.
Appears to be purely a physical attraction. It really isn't a problem. This is an issue that everyone has had the opportunity (misfortune?) to be involved from time-to-time - or if one hasn't, one will. As she is married and a supervisor, I figure that in this case there's nothing you can do about it. I would not advocate making any radical changes in your interaction with her since none of what you're doing seems particularly damaging personally or professionally. Continue (try?) to associate with her in a respectful and professional manner and enjoy the view.
[look, don't touch]
Exactly, what I was thinking was best advice!
I also do keep conversation with her basically limited to work. And yes I intentionally keep my distance from her when talking.
Make sure she doesn't see your hard on (and no, these don't disappear after a guy isn't a teenager, my husband is 46 and gets them all the time spontaneously).
The reason I advise you to hide your erection is because she can nail you on sexual harassment. Don't laugh, this exact thing happened at my job several years ago. The school Dean (female) saw a male Prof with a glaring hard on while he was meeting with her. She filed a sexual harassment claim against him. Remember, sexual harassment doesn't have to be overt or verbal, it can something as innocent as you getting an erection around her and making her feel uncomfortable.
Just fantasize over her in private. Don't make your sexual interest in her remotely noticeable. She holds the cards and if she thinks you're a creep or not in her league, she may go after your job.
The best takeaway from the OP is the creation of the new word "astrounded."
I'm gonna work that into casual conversation over the next few weeks.
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I just keep on telling myself there nothing I can do but get a few glimpses of her around the work place...
. Isn't that something teenagers experience? But then again, I am not a man, so what do I know.
