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Old 05-25-2011, 04:18 PM
 
Location: Maryland
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Last Saturday I had a fifth date with someone I've been seeing. I wasn't that attracted to him at first, but he really liked me so I gave him a chance. This thing has been SLOW moving. Our first kiss was on the third date, a 5 second kiss. Fourth date, we made out for about 10 minutes (and I finally found myself sexually attracted to him as a result). After our fifth date, he asked me to go back to his place. We didn't have sex, but did get naked and do everything but...and I really enjoyed it, A LOT to be honet, because it turns out he is an incredibly passionate person... but as I said there is a small problem...

He has a really tiny penis. Really, it is the smallest I've ever come across in my life. It's 3-4 inches while at full salute, and no I am not exaggerating. I kit admit I'm a little worried about having sex with this guy - will it be really disappointing? Has anyone here been down this road, started sleeping with a guy who is super tiny? Is it possible that it would be enjoyable? Has he slow-played the sex in order to trap me before laying the teeny tiny on me?

This guy is very smitten with me, and as such treats me very well. He's not my "type" but then again, I'm not so focused on dating my type anymore.
I've been here and recent. I stopped seeing him. As you said, he was very passionate and I loved it. I had an "o", but I wasn't satisfied. We had sex several times. I'm still attracted to this guy, but it's that problem.

I doubt, if he slow played you. He's not gonna say, hey I have a small one. He knows it's small, but he may know he's good in bed. I would try it. You may be surprised. Especially, since he's not your normal dating type. Give him a chance. He's sweet to you. Hey Mikey you may like it.

My girlfriends and I always say, I thought we said we weren't gonna throw away the good ones. Give him a chance to screw up.

 
Old 05-25-2011, 04:18 PM
 
Location: South FL
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Well, I suggest that if you are really attracted to him, to at least try and see how he uses it. I do believe that there is a difference in feeling when it comes to size, but who knows, he maybe has some real cool techniques up his sleeve. The fact that he is passionate is a big plus, but with such tiny penis, hopefully he knows how to use his fingers and his tongue.
 
Old 05-25-2011, 04:29 PM
 
Location: NYC
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I don't buy that at all. Yeah, I've heard it all - it's the motion of the ocean and experience and whatever bull.

There is, however, a little thing called a tongue that can make mountains out of - oh who cares? A tongue is the best part of a man.
I know it's unusual, but I'm really not a big fan of being on the receiving end of oral sex. it's very hard for me to get off, and I have to think about the most foul, raunchy stuff to keep my excitement level up.
 
Old 05-25-2011, 04:30 PM
 
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I know it's unusual, but I'm really not a big fan of being on the receiving end of oral sex. it's very hard for me to get off, and I have to think about the most foul, raunchy stuff to keep my excitement level up.

Like what?
 
Old 05-25-2011, 04:35 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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This is the sort of question I wouldn't have even thought of responding to 20 years ago as I would have been embarrassed to say, "I've done 'em all, both big and small/On different men both short and tall/And even one with just one ball. The size of head is not the deal/It's what's in YOURS that makes you squeal!"
 
Old 05-25-2011, 04:35 PM
 
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I just think you should go for it, without worrying about it. Thinking about it too much will only prevent you from being open to the possibility that you may end up really enjoying it.
 
Old 05-25-2011, 04:36 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Like what?
I will never tell. That stuff is for my head alone!
 
Old 05-25-2011, 04:56 PM
 
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I don't believe in the motion of the ocean BS. I was with a guy about that size, and no amount of passion or technique could fix inadequate equipment. No harm in a test drive though.
 
Old 05-25-2011, 05:01 PM
 
Location: NYC
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I've been here and recent. I stopped seeing him. As you said, he was very passionate and I loved it. I had an "o", but I wasn't satisfied. We had sex several times. I'm still attracted to this guy, but it's that problem.

I doubt, if he slow played you. He's not gonna say, hey I have a small one. He knows it's small, but he may know he's good in bed. I would try it. You may be surprised. Especially, since he's not your normal dating type. Give him a chance. He's sweet to you. Hey Mikey you may like it.

My girlfriends and I always say, I thought we said we weren't gonna throw away the good ones. Give him a chance to screw up.
exactly.
 
Old 05-25-2011, 05:02 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I don't believe in the motion of the ocean BS. I was with a guy about that size, and no amount of passion or technique could fix inadequate equipment. No harm in a test drive though.
Wait, did you use the right equipment to boot??

It's one thing to accuse others and another thing to have a skewed perspective.

As they always say, it's all in the eye of the beholder, ladies


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