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We are both in our early twenties and she is still a virgin. I am not sure on how to deal with this as a thought. I love her and we are wanting to be married, but the whole virgin thing just throws me. She is waiting-until-marriage but I'm not sure on how to feel about it. It's like it's one of those things you see. You understand it, you appreciate it very much, you love it no matter what it is, you accept it, but you don't know what to do about it. (If you are understanding my babbling please help me). She and I are wanting to get married at some point in the next few years but at the moment we are trying to get our lives straightened out before joining them. But the virgin part is something that I accept from her but it's odd (not bad odd but odd). Again, if you understand this post I would like to have your input.
You want her sexually and can't understand why she won't give it up to you since you already told her that you'd marry her in the next couple of years. You're hoping you could have sex with her for a couple of years before marriage. She wants to wait. Anything could happen between you two before you marry her (you might decide she's not the one or she could feel you're not the one) and she has decided to wait until marriage. If you don't respect or like her commitment she made to herself, you need to let her go and find someone that will give you sex or has a sex history.
We are both in our early twenties and she is still a virgin. I am not sure on how to deal with this as a thought. I love her and we are wanting to be married, but the whole virgin thing just throws me. She is waiting-until-marriage but I'm not sure on how to feel about it. It's like it's one of those things you see. You understand it, you appreciate it very much, you love it no matter what it is, you accept it, but you don't know what to do about it. (If you are understanding my babbling please help me). But the virgin part is something that I accept from her but it's odd (not bad odd but odd). Again, if you understand this post I would like to have your input.
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Originally Posted by I'm The Supporter
She and I are wanting to get married at some point in the next few years but at the moment we are trying to get our lives straightened out before joining them.
why do you find her virginity odd? have you communicated with her on how you feel about this? you may want to sit down with her and have a serious conversation about it because if you wait, it might get worse.
either way, you seem to have issues you may want to work on before marriage.
There is more to sex than intercourse. A lot more.
soooo true!!
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bi-sexual… did you tell her that?
soooo true!!
