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Old 06-16-2011, 09:07 PM
 
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Originally Posted by CancerianMoonPrincess View Post
Yeah I know. Even if I currently do, I'm gonna try moving out after college.
Me too. I'm going to get a part time job this summer and build up my current savings. Even as a child, I've always been very careful with my money. I don't spend too much of what I get it, it all goes into my savings.

I've just started to save up for my retirement too and for my future (engagement ring, house, kids, etc.) because who knows where the economy is going to go.
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Old 06-16-2011, 09:07 PM
 
Location: FL
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miamisweetheart, would you date a man who lives with his parents?
Depends on the situation, if he's still in school or lived on his own and had to move back with parents...
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Old 06-16-2011, 09:08 PM
 
Location: FL
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And you think going on a national forum is going to help you find a beau? You live in the city with the highest concentration of people south of Atlanta. No options there?
Most of the guys here are not into me/ not looking for anything serious. If I do find someone chances are they are just tourists.
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Old 06-16-2011, 09:09 PM
 
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Me too. I'm going to get a part time job this summer and build up my current savings. Even as a child, I've always been very careful with my money. I don't spend too much of what I get it, it all goes into my savings.

I've just started to save for my retirement too and for my future (engagement ring, house, kids, etc.).
Awww that's sweet! I hope that girl you love marries you!
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Old 06-16-2011, 10:11 PM
 
Location: FL
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guess its just me and my ***** then *sigh*
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Old 06-16-2011, 10:15 PM
 
Location: Minnesota
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Most of the guys here are not into me/ not looking for anything serious. If I do find someone chances are they are just tourists.
Well, have you thought about relocating? Maybe someone who is a fun and caring person just isnt in the same area as you, at least none you'd be happy with.
As far as I go, personally, and your list. I fit 1, 4, 5, 7, pretty sure 8, never had complaints, in fact told i go too long, 9, pretend to fit in 10, if you dont tell, i wont, 11, and 12. Which considering your list, is pretty ok if you ask me. I am TRYING to get back into college but then, i doubt you'd be ok dating someone who is disabled, for some reason most women are not cool with it. Side note, i DONT live with my parents, never minded a woman who did, and in fact, was happy with one of them for a while before things didnt work out in the end with them. So to those of you who are being mean to miami about that, sometimes it's what's best for the person. We dont know her situation, let's keep an open mind.
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Old 06-16-2011, 10:38 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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Aaaww, a brand new tender PC soul!

All jokes be banned! All jokes be banned! All jokes be banned! Happy?!
Be easy on the guy. He still thinks white knighting will get him laid.

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Aside from being a Virgo, I meet all the items on your list and am currently single. However, based on this thread you kind of removed yourself from someone I would typically consider wanting to get to know better.

You haven't told us what you bring to the table yet, which could mean you don't know or very little. There is nothing wrong with this, but as a man who does know what he wants, my past has shown a relationship with a girl who doesn't is a dead end.

The fact you have a job that does pay reasonably is a plus. However, you didn't even spell it correctly. An intelligent college educated man looking for a wife and not a booty call would probably look poorly on this if not disqualify you altogether. The same holds true to your horoscope sign alignment. I think the whole system is "fun to think about", but a girl who runs her life on it generally has some confidence or motivation issues. The world isn't going to hand you something for free because it was in the Sunday astrology section.

Nope, unless you don't make enough to present yourself in a way that would attract a man of this caliber.

Don't take this personally, but I think you might want to sit down and think about what's most important to you and how to be attractive to that type of man.

Good luck!
Hahaha, owned!
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Old 06-16-2011, 10:48 PM
 
Location: Minnesota
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Be easy on the guy. He still thinks white knighting will get him laid.



Hahaha, owned!
...gods, your a real jerk, aren't you?
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Old 06-16-2011, 10:58 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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...gods, your a real jerk, aren't you?
I prefer "purveyor of tough love based reality checks" but we can go with jerk too.
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Old 06-16-2011, 11:00 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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I don't even remember what my sign is.

Either way, it's okay to have high standards, you may just have to wait a while for the right one to come along. If you're willing to wait, that's fine, but I've found that I can still be attracted to women who don't fit into my normal criteria. It's just a matter of giving people a chance.
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