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Old 06-16-2011, 10:03 AM
 
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It makes me feel like they just passed over me (since I am the age of the accused a lot of the time) just to get with a kid who lives with his mom.

Am I that bad a person that women are considering teenage boys before me?
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Old 06-16-2011, 10:08 AM
 
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Why didn't it happen when I was at school ?

My Chemistry teacher was SMOKIN' hot !!!
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Old 06-16-2011, 10:09 AM
 
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I go back to my high school every year to pick up transcripts and I don't get any play.

But, I bet in 4-8 months there will be another teacher-student relationship.
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Old 06-16-2011, 11:15 AM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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There was one hot teacher in my high school.

I have no idea why they do it. I could understand getting with like a senior, maybe, but it seems like they always have sex with some freshman kid. I think that alone points to some underlying issues because honestly, what the **** does a 9th grader know about sex?
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Old 06-16-2011, 11:18 AM
 
Location: Hell, NY
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It makes me feel like they just passed over me (since I am the age of the accused a lot of the time) just to get with a kid who lives with his mom.

Am I that bad a person that women are considering teenage boys before me?

It's not that your a bad person at all. A pedophile is a pedophile no matter what gender. Perhaps if you were a little twiggy seventh grader, you'd get more play with "those" types...
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Old 06-16-2011, 11:30 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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I think its more of a powerplay than sex... IDK... I could be wrong, but isn't a 14 yr old kid much "safer" than a grown man, not so much physically as in mentally.
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Old 06-16-2011, 11:34 AM
 
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It makes me feel like they just passed over me (since I am the age of the accused a lot of the time) just to get with a kid who lives with his mom.

Am I that bad a person that women are considering teenage boys before me?
Ha! No, hon. There tends to be a dynamic to these types of liaisons -- the dynamic involves more than just an age difference, it involves a dominance difference. The age difference simply highlights that the teacher has the power in the relationship in a very obvious way. Really (as far as I understand things) it's about having power over a person, using sex to get that power and using position (I mean as in professional position) to keep it.

And for the record, no, I do not approve. Bleah!
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Old 06-16-2011, 11:36 AM
 
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I think its more of a powerplay than sex... IDK... I could be wrong, but isn't a 14 yr old kid much "safer" than a grown man, not so much physically as in mentally.
Ha, beat me to it. 'Zactly........
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Old 06-16-2011, 11:50 AM
 
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It's because they're mentally sick.
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Old 06-16-2011, 11:57 AM
 
Location: Del Rio, TN
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Isn't it discrimination if they mess around with just one kid? Shouldn't all kids get the same opportunity?
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