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So once again it's ok for women to show DESPERATION but a man has to always keep stuff to himself and pretend like everything is COOL.
Well guess what? I was turned off because I don't want to meet a desperate women and once she showed that side of herself she no longer had SEX APPEAL. Everyone on this board should know that you don't talk about your failures to someone you just met.
I found out a secret about job interviews in 2009 so I'm no longer nervous when I go on interviews. Haven't found out the secret about dating yet......maybe 2012?
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I didn't want to meet a girl I was chatting with online because she revealed she met a guy 2 weeks ago and he wasn't attracted to her. So she suddenly became unattractive and i was being criticized by members on this board for being shallow. Who wants to meet a desperate and insecure person?
I didn't want to meet a girl I was chatting with online because she revealed she met a guy 2 weeks ago and he wasn't attracted to her. So she suddenly became unattractive and i was being criticized by members on this board for being shallow. Who wants to meet a desperate and insecure person?
That doesn't make her desperate and insecure, that makes you irrational and and foolish. You don't know the man's taste. Perhaps he doesn't like women with thick thighs, like you do. The odds are good that he is not sending funds via Paypal, in lieu of a date. He might loathe Froot Loops and be easy going when in comes to his love interest's choice in casual footwear. See, it's silly to agree with someone when you don't know his likes and dislikes.
Well, darn me, that actually looks very much like our Sol behind the greasepaint and the proboscis! Very funny!
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Originally Posted by zonababe
That doesn't make her desperate and insecure, that makes you irrational and and foolish. You don't know the man's taste. Perhaps he doesn't like women with thick thighs, like you do. The odds are good that he is not sending funds via Paypal, in lieu of a date. He might loathe Froot Loops and be easy going when in comes to his love interest's choice in casual footwear. See, it's silly to agree with someone when you don't know his likes and dislikes.
Are you seriously opening up the New Year trying to apply logic to his pronouncements. I just wish he could find new material as he's posted the exact same thing close to half a dozen times already. Sol, you could have just referred the new inquiring poster to, "Post # whatever" and saved yourself the finger exercise. Over three years of this already and I have a feeling it'll be repeated for the next three and more.
Long after I'm gone, Old Retired Sol's going to be sitting there in his Froot-Loops and take-out chicken wings-stained undies still whining about dateless nights and how he can't live on his SS stipend amongst so much more ...
That doesn't make her desperate and insecure, that makes you irrational and and foolish. You don't know the man's taste. Perhaps he doesn't like women with thick thighs, like you do. The odds are good that he is not sending funds via Paypal, in lieu of a date. He might loathe Froot Loops and be easy going when in comes to his love interest's choice in casual footwear. See, it's silly to agree with someone when you don't know his likes and dislikes.
The other things she said seemed desperate, though. Telling him "I hope this works out or I'm done with OKC" is putting a little too much pressure on him. Maybe she can say that after they've gone on a date or two, but it sounds a little desperate when she's never met him before.
The other things she said seemed desperate, though. Telling him "I hope this works out or I'm done with OKC" is putting a little too much pressure on him. Maybe she can say that after they've gone on a date or two, but it sounds a little desperate when she's never met him before.
He feels "pressure" when the wind blows and always bear in mind that when he relates something it has to be taken with not a grain but a block of salt. Often what he hears is very muffled and between his brain and his typing fingers is a very long distance. Trust in the fact that this gal seriously dodged a bullet ...
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Oh silly Sol...
I just wish he could find new material as he's posted the exact same thing close to half a dozen times already. Sol, you could have just referred the new inquiring poster to, "Post # whatever" and saved yourself the finger exercise. Over three years of this already and I have a feeling it'll be repeated for the next three and more. 
