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Old 07-23-2011, 05:44 PM
 
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Ultimately, men benefit from pursuing women, or they wouldn't do it. Men don't chase women because they are great humanitarians.

Women would benefit just as much by doing the same exact thing.
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Old 07-23-2011, 05:45 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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That's right. You have the right to have whatever sexist beliefs you want, as I do, and we both have the right to point out how sexist and unequal one anothers beliefs may be : )
For what point? I don't start threads or posts saying my way is right. I'm saying live your life the way you want, just stop complaining.
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Old 07-23-2011, 05:45 PM
 
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That's right, there is no umbrella. Women can be just as sexist as men can be, they can be hypocritical, and a man who calls out a hypocritical B is not being any more bitter or sexist than a woman who calls out a hypocritical man. If women don't want to be called selfish B's, maybe they should elaborate on the things they think women should do for men, instead of being so focused on what they should receive from men.
Well, I think women generally do a whole lot for men generally. I think both genders do a great deal for each other. I can say this, you will not find yourself a progressive woman who has an interest in caring for you as an equal in every way if you use bigoted terms. I know this because I'm that kind of woman, I hang out with those kinds of women, and we all end up with specific types of men; men who have more class than that. And you will never find a woman like me disparaging men at large. People with their shyte together don't do that. Any how, selfish people end up with selfish people- likes with likes. That's the way of it. If you want a better woman, then be a better man.
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Old 07-23-2011, 05:46 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Women would benefit just as much by doing the same exact thing.
But why would they if guys are so willing to do it first?
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Old 07-23-2011, 05:47 PM
 
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For what point? I don't start threads or posts saying my way is right. I'm saying live your life the way you want, just stop complaining.
you tell women to stop complaining if they mention something that some men do?
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Old 07-23-2011, 05:47 PM
 
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But why would they if guys are so willing to do it first?

Because they're lazy. And most guys do it because they have to, not because they want to.
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Old 07-23-2011, 05:49 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Because they're lazy. And most guys do it because they have to, not because they want to.
No such thing as dating because you have to.
Of course they want to.
And they want it more.

Think about it...if every guy on the planet stopped asking women out, THEN you might see some change. Right now it's too easy to let it all come to us.
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Old 07-23-2011, 05:50 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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progressive woman
Only guys who have a seriously lack of testosterone want a "progressive woman". Gender roles exist because there's a biological basis. Ignoring biology and shoehorning some misguided sense of equality into modern society has done nothing but destroy everything good about relationships. Masculine women are NOT appealing whatsoever. This has nothing to do with being independent. I fail to see why these two concepts are perpetually confused.
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Old 07-23-2011, 05:50 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Because they're lazy. And most guys do it because they have to, not because they want to.
So - because I have often had many guys pursuing me - this means I'm lazy?

Once again, your logic eludes me.
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Old 07-23-2011, 05:50 PM
 
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Because they're lazy. And most guys do it because they have to, not because they want to.
Exactly about the second sentence. In the thread about who pays for dates, some posters mentioned they wouldn't date men that insisted going dutch right from the start. Such men were called cheapos, not real men, without class, etc.
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