Do men fall deeper in love after the sex? (family, casual, attraction)
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Finally the voice of reason...
Sex is just sex unless a rapport and true feelings have evolved and is already part of the relationship...
But to state you have dated a guy 4 times and went and banged him? It may just be sex and no reason to get hurt unless conversation and the exchange of feelings have occured and the relationship has moved to being exclusive..then sex intensifies it just my opinion...
Finally the voice of reason...
Sex is just sex unless a rapport and true feelings have evolved and is already part of the relationship...
But to state you have dated a guy 4 times and went and banged him? It may just be sex and no reason to get hurt unless conversation and the exchange of feelings have occured and the relationship has moved to being exclusive..then sex intensifies it just my opinion...
The question is "Do you fall DEEPER IN LOVE after sex?" That would presume that there is some kind of connection or exchange of feelings before the fact would it not? So what happens after, you have just had sex for the first time with someone that by the title of the thread you must have feelings for, does that change the nature of the relationship at that point having become intimate? For me the answer would be yes. If we are talking about just banging some random guy/girl here then the whole thread is pointless. Might as well ask if someone had fell for their vibrator.
The question is "Do you fall DEEPER IN LOVE after sex?" That would presume that there is some kind of connection or exchange of feelings before the fact would it not? So what happens after, you have just had sex for the first time with someone that by the title of the thread you must have feelings for, does that change the nature of the relationship at that point having become intimate? For me the answer would be yes. If we are talking about just banging some random guy/girl here then the whole thread is pointless. Might as well ask if someone had fell for their vibrator.
Thank you Crabman, that is exactly what I meant and was going to explain but you already did, thank you. It was based on something I read about men emotionally connecting with women more once sex has been involved. Again this isn't about making a random man fall for you with sex but moreso about consummation of love..a love that was already there.
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Those feelings you get from sex is NOT love but lust. Unfortunately, too many folks mistake lust for love ... This is why we have so many children without daddies as once the lust dies out, the men (or women) moves on to the next fresh encounter. True love means that you are there for a person through thick and thin ... even after the romantic phase of a relationship fizzles. True love requires sacrifice and a willingness to put the needs of another person above your own. Basing a relationship purely upon feelings of lust is one of the main reasons why so many marriages are falling apart in America! Lust is such a shaky foundation in which to build a relationship. For a marriage to stand, you must have more than just those feelings of lust ... You must have communication, shared values and mutual respect!
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Totally agree ...
