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about a month ago I had drunken sex with my housemate (sigh yes I know!!) and since then we've had sex a few times but I've slept in his room with him a lot more, he always hugs me all night but I'm always the one who initiates it. anyway the last time I slept in his room he didn't hug me but when I woke up in the morning he was staring at me.
in the mornings he doesnt try to get me out of his room, we either talk, watch tv or hug or make out but he could just like the affection. I'm really confused, I like him but I'm not sure if he likes me or is in it for the sex. the whole time I've known him he's been playing the field but the other day we were talking and he said it's not all it's cracked up to be, was he hinting something to me? when I'm around him I'm really flirty and were really silly with each other and muck about but he's always been like that with me so I just don't know. I cant just ask him if he likes me either cos we live together and I don't want things to get weird for my other housemates. were both nearly 21 if that helps. there is one problem he's friends with my ex and when we first started having sex he said he felt bad but he doesn't seem to mind anymore. *
Too soon to tell Lady, but this is a FWB arrangement that could possibly turn into something more. My best advice would be to go with the flow and not ask him his intentions but watch his actions instead. If he's been playing the field and suddenly he's not and he's spending more time with you, you'll have your answer, but if you ask too soon or press for more you could turn him off.
Hey, he gets a willing visitor in his bed without having to make an effort to even step out of the house or get online! I don't know of any red-blooded single guys who'd turn this offer down, unless the visitor is totally disgusting...
erm everything really, asking to stay in his room and asking for sex. however once I'm in his room he starts the hugging n I'll start the kissing and sex. he only really started the hugging :s
erm everything really, asking to stay in his room and asking for sex. however once I'm in his room he starts the hugging n I'll start the kissing and sex. he only really started the hugging :s
So you are intiating sex with a guy, and want to know if he is using you for taking what you repeatedly offer?
but the thing is we don't always have sex. that's why I'm confused. if we had sex all the time I'd understand but we've had sex less times than we've spent just laying there talking or whatever.
Doesn't anyone TALK any more????? Really???? You could have these questions answered by the person you're sleeping with IF YOU TALKED TO HIM ABOUT THESE THINGS. Seriously, I can't for the life of me wonder why people have sex before they talk to each other.
Who knows what he's thinking since I can't get into his head? It could be he likes you, could be you're just a piece, could be....
While you guys are laying in bed and watch TV, why don't you ask him how he feels about you and then go from there.
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