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Old 10-05-2011, 03:37 PM
 
Location: In The Thin Air
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Wow, if a guy I was dating told me I needed to get laid because I was too wound up - I don't think I would date him again. That's pretty rude.
Wow, you sound all wound up. I think you need to get laid.
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Old 10-05-2011, 04:30 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Wow, you sound all wound up. I think you need to get laid.
From you, I take no offense... and will even take your advice!
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Old 10-05-2011, 05:54 PM
 
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Part Two - In continuation from yesterday. So he texts me yesterday and we are going back and forth at it....all the while...still wondering why he wont come over after I have invited him...I mean we've been semi-intimate, (kissing, touching, etc.)....So out of the blue...he says that im too wound up and that I need to get laid....WTF....In my mind that was the reason for me inviting him over......Couldnt believe he said that .....Just dont get this guy...so I guess our past dates have just been in vain......I dont get it.....
What the...? This guy needs help.
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Old 10-05-2011, 05:58 PM
 
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You know...could he perhaps have performance problems? I mean...the way he's so hard-core when you're NOT physically together (the "get laid" comment) yet won't take it past Sophomore Year-esque petting and kissing when you're really there...I don't know. I'd just bet there's an issue there where he "can't" quite get there. In fact the more I think about it, the more I'd put money on the possibility...
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Old 10-06-2011, 08:59 AM
 
Location: Way up high
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He has a chickie..Move on..Any guy who doesn't come over when invited after dating a new girl has nanny at home already
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Old 10-06-2011, 07:17 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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Take a big hint from the beloved chick flick movie, k? That arse wipe is just not that into you.
It's truly that simple.
Move on.
Think this: NEXT!
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Old 10-07-2011, 06:53 AM
 
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Get this...he tells me that there were plenty of times when we were together "that the moment presented itself" and I didnt act on it.....Excuse me... but i dont do the pursuing.......I am the pursuee......and he said that I was too passive.....WTF!!!!!!
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Old 10-07-2011, 06:58 AM
 
Location: NC
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Get this...he tells me that there were plenty of times when we were together "that the moment presented itself" and I didnt act on it.....Excuse me... but i dont do the pursuing.......I am the pursuee......and he said that I was too passive.....WTF!!!!!!
sounds like a beta male ... probably has some other issues going on...
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Old 10-07-2011, 11:58 AM
 
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Excuse the ignorance but what is a beta male?
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Old 10-07-2011, 12:27 PM
 
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I honestly just want to ask him.......but dont know how to...I want to approach him in a mature way without sounding another way.....What and How would you ask him?
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