Contact after 10 years? (man, husband, sex, college)
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It's basically the "Hey, just wanting to know how you're doing, but I'm really trying to find out if your marriage is on a firm footing because if it you even hint that it's not I'm going to do my level best to pry you away from that lucky bastard who got you" call.
I've had several of those, particularly in the few years after I got married. Then, upon discovering Facebook, it happened a few more times. Some drunken dials, too. MrsCPG would just hand me the phone.
If she values her marriage and her husband the answer is simple. But your answer is, yes, he's just a selfish a hole looking for a roll. He got out his old black book and is going through the numbers. The fact that she has 5 stars by her name means she is one of the first called. He's not desperate, just looking for a good time and knows where he might be able to find some.
I dated the same girl all through high school. We went out seperate ways after that. She found me on facebook about a year ago. She's married with a family, and I'm also married with family. But it's good to hear from her again. And it's nothing more than being friends with everybody else on my list. Your "friend" may have other things on his mind but he also may just be trying to add old friends to his list. Need to talk to him and see what's going on. There's always the delete button.
I dated the same girl all through high school. We went out seperate ways after that. She found me on facebook about a year ago. She's married with a family, and I'm also married with family. But it's good to hear from her again. And it's nothing more than being friends with everybody else on my list. Your "friend" may have other things on his mind but he also may just be trying to add old friends to his list. Need to talk to him and see what's going on. There's always the delete button.
The man was cheating on his wife with this girl so I don't think the relationship is like your high school romance. He probably doesn't have your (and your friend's) good intentions.
Contacting her on the day of his divorce screams booty call. He's looking for something to get him back in the game after a failed marriage. You friend should ignore the request. She's married
What you can tell her is to be faithful to her husband and while you're at it tell het to grow up and get off of Facebook.
My friend Ella had a relationship with a guy over 10 years ago. She told me that he contacted her via Facebook over the weekend. She asked me if I thought it was some kind of booty call. I don't know what to tell her.
Ella and this guy had an intense sexual relationship while he was married and she was single. Now apparently he is divorced (he contacted her on the day his divorce was finalized) and she is the one who has been married for 6 years. Why would he contact her? I'm sure the guy was not hurting for sex, since he was nice looking back in the day.
Does this guy have feelings for her or just wanting her to be his booty call again? What do I tell her, that he cares for her? Or is simple trying to get back in bed with her?
Sounds to me Ella ran into her old plumber that had her pipes flowing properly. She misses the time when the pipes didn't have problems. Its her decision at the end of the day.
My friend Ella is still talking to him. Seems she likes his attention. I asked her why and she said that her and her husband only have sex a handful of times per year. Think that the sexual part of her marriage is over.
My friend Ella had a relationship with a guy over 10 years ago. She told me that he contacted her via Facebook over the weekend. She asked me if I thought it was some kind of booty call. I don't know what to tell her.
Ella and this guy had an intense sexual relationship while he was married and she was single. Now apparently he is divorced (he contacted her on the day his divorce was finalized) and she is the one who has been married for 6 years. Why would he contact her? I'm sure the guy was not hurting for sex, since he was nice looking back in the day.
Does this guy have feelings for her or just wanting her to be his booty call again? What do I tell her, that he cares for her? Or is simple trying to get back in bed with her?
You, er, your friend, should stop analyzing this guy's intentions toward you, oops, your friend. Most FB interactions are innocuous. However, if you--dang did it again--your friend obsesses over something so trite and so small, then perhaps you, ummm, your friend should re-examine your *sigh* HER own marriage to determine what is missing that this guy's communication inspires so much rumination.
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Originally Posted by pwartrum
My friend Ella is still talking to him. Seems she likes his attention. I asked her why and she said that her and her husband only have sex a handful of times per year. Think that the sexual part of her marriage is over.
Then you--ELLA--should to grow the hell up and work on things with the husband.
My friend Ella is still talking to him. Seems she likes his attention. I asked her why and she said that her and her husband only have sex a handful of times per year. Think that the sexual part of her marriage is over.
Oh great. This lady (and I use that term loosely) is probably considering cheating on her husband. Did anyone see that coming?
Oh great. This lady (and I use that term loosely) is probably considering cheating on her husband. Did anyone see that coming?
A mile away......
Just another useless waste of air.... Seriously isn't there a way to neuter these people and stop them from reproducing or something....
I hope the husband finds the Facebook account and sees what's happening then leaves her sorry azz and takes whatever he can from her...
Seriously folks.. Grow the F**K UP
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