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Old 10-24-2011, 11:02 AM
 
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Hell, my college and military friends are contacting me on facebook after much longer than 10 years.
It's just a way to check people out.
Why read so much into something that's not been said or implied?
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Old 10-24-2011, 11:05 AM
 
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Hell, my college and military friends are contacting me on facebook after much longer than 10 years.
It's just a way to check people out.
Why read so much into something that's not been said or implied?
Maybe because:

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My friend Ella is still talking to him. Seems she likes his attention. I asked her why and she said that her and her husband only have sex a handful of times per year. Think that the sexual part of her marriage is over.
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Old 10-24-2011, 11:06 AM
 
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The man was cheating on his wife with this girl so I don't think the relationship is like your high school romance. He probably doesn't have your (and your friend's) good intentions.
No surprise, always tainted against the guy! She was having any affair with him in the first place. The guilt should be shared equally!
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Old 10-24-2011, 11:10 AM
 
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No surprise, always tainted against the guy! She was having any affair with him in the first place. The guilt should be shared equally!
I agree.
It takes two to tango.
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Old 10-24-2011, 11:22 AM
 
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No surprise, always tainted against the guy! She was having any affair with him in the first place. The guilt should be shared equally!
I said the guy was cheating with this girl. How is that being against the guy and pro towards the girl? Where did I praise the girl and absolve her of the blame?
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Old 10-24-2011, 12:21 PM
 
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I said the guy was cheating with this girl. How is that being against the guy and pro towards the girl? Where did I praise the girl and absolve her of the blame?
Yes, you obviously blame the guy.
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Old 10-24-2011, 12:32 PM
 
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The married person should be held to a higher standard...male or female!
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Old 10-24-2011, 12:32 PM
 
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Yes, you obviously blame the guy.
I know, How 80's of her
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Old 10-24-2011, 12:46 PM
 
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Yes, you obviously blame the guy.
Show me where I blamed the guy more than the girl.

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I know, How 80's of her
No need to be so disgustingly rude.
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Old 10-24-2011, 02:02 PM
 
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My friend Ella had a relationship with a guy over 10 years ago. She told me that he contacted her via Facebook over the weekend. She asked me if I thought it was some kind of booty call. I don't know what to tell her.

Ella and this guy had an intense sexual relationship while he was married and she was single. Now apparently he is divorced (he contacted her on the day his divorce was finalized) and she is the one who has been married for 6 years. Why would he contact her? I'm sure the guy was not hurting for sex, since he was nice looking back in the day.

Does this guy have feelings for her or just wanting her to be his booty call again? What do I tell her, that he cares for her? Or is simple trying to get back in bed with her?
Why would he contact her???....because the sex was good, and thanks to discrace..er..facebook she's a message away
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