Worst relationship experience you ever had???

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My relationship to the father of my daughter was very tragic. All the beating up and abuse you can't imagine. almost thought of hiring a killer seriously.

[SweetJane1]

Yeah. I was the "beard" and looking back I should have seen the signs. Holding hands, very hesitant kisses- that's as serious as our sex life got. And his excuse was that "sex was for after marriage." We rarely went to his place and when we did his "roommate" was never there. Plus (he told me this early in the relationship) his friend and him owned the condo together. The first time I was at his place there was a picture of him and his friend on the mantle in his living room- arms around each other's waists and taken at Disney World, both wearing matching red t-shirts. He saw me looking at the picture- I had picked it up off the mantle- and he made some off-the cuff comment "oh-we were there with a group." The next time I was at his condo the picture was gone. He worked at a very conservative accounting firm- only black or dark grey suits, no patterned ties, white shirts only. He took me to a photo studio so he could have a "suitable picture of us for his desk."

[In2itive_1]

Originally Posted by SweetJane1

Yeah. I was the "beard" and looking back I should have seen the signs. Holding hands, very hesitant kisses- that's as serious as our sex life got. And his excuse was that "sex was for after marriage." We rarely went to his place and when we did his "roommate" was never there. Plus (he told me this early in the relationship) his friend and him owned the condo together. The first time I was at his place there was a picture of him and his friend on the mantle in his living room- arms around each other's waists and taken at Disney World, both wearing matching red t-shirts. He saw me looking at the picture- I had picked it up off the mantle- and he made some off-the cuff comment "oh-we were there with a group." The next time I was at his condo the picture was gone. He worked at a very conservative accounting firm- only black or dark grey suits, no patterned ties, white shirts only. He took me to a photo studio so he could have a "suitable picture of us for his desk."

I noticed you posted more about that previously, and that this went on for 6 months? So, you had a heads-up right in the beginning. It seems it would have also been a real indicator, that there were no physical advances, when straight men really do not hold back. Wow..again, you don't know what is going on with people.

I never had experienced anything that weird, just the usual ups and downs with dishonest (sometimes), immature, screwed up, straight men. WHERE ARE ALL THE NORMAL ONES? Some women appear lucky to be with a good one, but it seems rare.