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I think women have it the same way and maybe just as bad..so maybe it is expected for the guy to initiate something but once that happens..the girl has to work twice as hard.. I don't even bother with it..ha!
not really, girls do not need confidence, however it is imperative for a guy to have it
thats not true, because the guy is expected to be the leader in the relationship, the dominant one, makes all or most of the decisions, plans
Err.. no.. I think there is no point in arguing with you about this since we both are inexperienced in dating There are no decisions without the other persons consent and that's with any relationship!
Well...I have been approaching women for like 7 years now and I'm not to happy to say that after all this time I have never had a girlfriend, a date or even my first kiss for that matter....and last week I was at this party and 4 of my friend's girlfriends started talking about the fact that they never see me with a girl..of course I didn't tell hem that I was a virgin but said that I didn't get a lot of dates though..and as the conversation progressed they said that:
1) I was too quiet, which gives a shy feel, and women almost never go for shy guys...
2) The way i dressed and groomed my self makes me look too young and not " alpha maleish" looking...
3) I am too mature, responsible ( they pointed out the fact that I never got drunk as an example) and that was killing my game..
4) Other women don't see me with a lady by my side, which doesn't give me a lot of status
5) I live with my mom and women see this as a weakness..( I will not ditch my mom by the way....it's only me and her here in the US..at least until my dad gets his green card and moves here...)
Believe me I know they are not the most reliable source of wisdom...but at least they were honest...
Do you guys think they could be right about this?
No. All that talk means is that you are not right for them with all of their expectations. That's all that's coming from them, THEIR expectations of what a guy should look like, how he should act, how he should live his life, etc.
So you don't date those 4 girls.
But you will find someone who adores you because of who you are.
I'm sure this has been said a hundred times on this thread already but wanted to put in yet another voice from the female perspective.
Oh and I agree, you are a good looking kid. Don't change for anyone, if you want to change, you change but don't ever do it for someone else and ESPECIALLY don't ever change just to get someone else. You'll never be truly happy that way.
And tell those ladies that you appreciate their advice but you are going to be who you are.
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There are no decisions without the other persons consent and that's with any relationship!
