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wow, cant say that men are jerks on this forum. at least thats what i think i said that was soooo rude and sexist. this forum is hilarious.
anyway, he probably was bored with me. im sure thats what the problem is with me, because i dont run my mouth all the time or have interesting things to talk about. this happens to me all the time; they obviously just get sick of me ... mostly sick enough of me to not get anything out of me.
also, yes, it would not have made a difference whether i gave it up sooner than later, because apparently he was a jerk who only wanted one thing out of me and probably would have dumped me afterward anyway (even though it wasnt like we only did it once).
wow, cant say that men are jerks on this forum. at least thats what i think i said that was soooo rude and sexist. this forum is hilarious.
anyway, he probably was bored with me. im sure thats what the problem is with me, because i dont run my mouth all the time or have interesting things to talk about. this happens to me all the time; they obviously just get sick of me ... mostly sick enough of me to not get anything out of me.
also, yes, it would not have made a difference whether i gave it up sooner than later, because apparently he was a jerk who only wanted one thing out of me and probably would have dumped me afterward anyway (even though it wasnt like we only did it once).
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Don't start questioning yourself on whether it was something you did. The guy that is meant for you will stick with you, regardless of whatever flaws you have, including sleeping with him "too soon". Yes I know that in general, men tend to prefer women that wait but it's no guarantee of anything i.e marriage, relationship, happiness.
Also, I know a number of people who slept on the first date and who are either married or in relationships. Life is just too varied to be fit in a box
The good thing is that you got some good lovin, after a long break. Sometimes you just need that .
That said, I won't contact him again. Act or Fake like you have dignity. Don't be lowered into pursuing him. He has your number and has seen your text. It his turn to respond
Let it go. You gave him the out and he took it. He didn't get back to you. Move on. You didin't do anything wrong yet, but if you keep posting, texting or calling....you will be.
Please do not yell at me for 1. sleeping with him and 2. too many texts. All wrong, I know.
Any ideas? Should I try calling or texting him or let it go?
We're human and have needs.
Now with that said, it sounds like this guy got what he wanted and is moving on to greener pastures. This sucks, but I suggest moving on with your life.
Just to answer your future question on the subject, he's only calling you back once a week or so just to keep you on the back burner. So my advice will be, you deserve someone better...now go find that person.
You've made a reasonable attempt to contact him. If he is that busy then he doesn't need a relationship. The other thing, he gave you the brush off and he will continue to give you the brush off.
wow, cant say that men are jerks on this forum. at least thats what i think i said that was soooo rude and sexist. this forum is hilarious.
anyway, he probably was bored with me. im sure thats what the problem is with me, because i dont run my mouth all the time or have interesting things to talk about. this happens to me all the time; they obviously just get sick of me ... mostly sick enough of me to not get anything out of me.
also, yes, it would not have made a difference whether i gave it up sooner than later, because apparently he was a jerk who only wanted one thing out of me and probably would have dumped me afterward anyway (even though it wasnt like we only did it once).
"anyway, he probably was bored with me. im sure thats what the problem is with me," I would not assume anything. It could be a thousand different reasons.
"i gave it up sooner than later," God, I really hate that term. I reminds me of something from the 50s. Like a woman and a man wanting to get together sexually is somehow wrong. It's just as much on the Womans shoulder as the mans. I haven't had sex on the first date in 20 years but if I did and she was "The one" it would make no difference.
Like the saying goes "you have to kiss some frogs to find your prince"
Is there a reason you can't just show up at his door? Sometimes, people lose their phones. Sometimes, their service is disconnected. And sometimes, people are just trying to get rid of you.
BTW, it doesn't seem like all he wanted was to hit it and quit it, or else he wouldn't have communicated with you for one whole month afterwards. At least it doesn't seem like to me. But perhaps his interests are now somewhere else, or he was talking to other women at the same time as you and was playing the field. Either way, one month is too soon to establish a serious relationship.
Is there a reason you can't just show up at his door? Sometimes, people lose their phones. Sometimes, their service is disconnected. And sometimes, people are just trying to get rid of you.
In that case, he could've retrieved her number from a recent phone bill and called her from another phone. It's really not that hard to contact someone if you want to contact them. Stop giving him the benefit of the doubt.
Is there a reason you can't just show up at his door? Sometimes, people lose their phones. Sometimes, their service is disconnected. And sometimes, people are just trying to get rid of you.
BTW, it doesn't seem like all he wanted was to hit it and quit it, or else he wouldn't have communicated with you for one whole month afterwards. At least it doesn't seem like to me. But perhaps his interests are now somewhere else, or he was talking to other women at the same time as you and was playing the field. Either way, one month is too soon to establish a serious relationship.
LOL yeah if she shows up at his door he'll probably thing she is a stalker
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