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My biggest problem with porn men view is that it is violent towards women and men think that's what we want. Why can't there be great porn where both people actually enjoy themselves?! If these porn stars are so good at what they do, then how about having a real orgasm?
Ummmm, because it's fake sex and the people are just acting.
Internet porn is not the healthy and mischievious porn of yesteryear - It is perverse - violent and totally with drawn from the reality what love and sex is really about..Those in this generation that watch internet porn are going to be warped and not be able to understand or have what is a normal relationship with the opposite sex - what's this crap about beating or strangling or humilitation of a partner in modern porn? Kids are going to think that this is sex - It is not sex - it is obsence and boarders on dysfunction - why encourage sexual dysfunctionality in society - or portray it as normal?
Internet porn is not the healthy and mischievious porn of yesteryear - It is perverse - violent and totally with drawn from the reality what love and sex is really about..Those in this generation that watch internet porn are going to be warped and not be able to understand or have what is a normal relationship with the opposite sex - what's this crap about beating or strangling or humilitation of a partner in modern porn? Kids are going to think that this is sex - It is not sex - it is obsence and boarders on dysfunction - why encourage sexual dysfunctionality in society - or portray it as normal?
LoL... thanks for the good laugh. People sure like to push their opinions as facts around here .
But in all seriousness, internet porn is no different than earlier forms of porn except for its ease of access. It's been normal for thousands of years and will continue to be without ruining society.
I don't agree with you, but I willsay that the easy availability of porn in these modern days is more likely the problem.
Many folks who would maybe be curious about porn probably wouldn't buy it.
They might pick up the odd magazine, or rent the odd movie.
Now it's just a matter of anonymously clicking a link, then "ping", your porn has arrived.
In all the time I've known my friend, I've only ever seen him with a couple of magazines, but since the internet arrived, he now has a huge collectiom.
I can see where this could cause problems in the wrong circumstances.
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Originally Posted by Oleg Bach
Internet porn is not the healthy and mischievious porn of yesteryear - It is perverse - violent and totally with drawn from the reality what love and sex is really about..Those in this generation that watch internet porn are going to be warped and not be able to understand or have what is a normal relationship with the opposite sex - what's this crap about beating or strangling or humilitation of a partner in modern porn? Kids are going to think that this is sex - It is not sex - it is obsence and boarders on dysfunction - why encourage sexual dysfunctionality in society - or portray it as normal?
Porn is a form of cheating. No girl wants her boyfriend or husband looking at other women, especially to get off. What happens is they give into it because rhetoric is spewed at them telling them they are not fair, that they're a prude, too conservative, not confident, etc. It's peer pressure, plain and simple, and it results in people defying their natural emotions and hardening themselves needlessly.
are you some sort or puritan?...and stop speaking for other women, No women wants her bf or husband looking at porn..uh no..that would be YOU that don't want that, your just projecting. My girlfriend watches it with me, and she also knows sometimes i watch it when she isnt around, she is ok with that.
I don't agree with you, but I willsay that the easy availability of porn in these modern days is more likely the problem.
Many folks who would maybe be curious about porn probably wouldn't buy it.
They might pick up the odd magazine, or rent the odd movie.
Now it's just a matter of anonymously clicking a link, then "ping", your porn has arrived.
In all the time I've known my friend, I've only ever seen him with a couple of magazines, but since the internet arrived, he now has a huge collectiom.
I can see where this could cause problems in the wrong circumstances.
But who is doing the clicking? The big, bad interwebs isn't slapping him upside the head forcing him to watch when he'd rather be reading the bible or similar.
I enjoyed smoking pot when I was younger and know where I could get it now, easily. Haven't smoked in 20+ years. Why? Because of me. I make my choices as does everyone else in their own choices.
Internet porn isn't a problem unless someone makes it so. If the person you mention has the potential to allow this to become a problem in his life, that's on him and nothing else.
I used to think that anytime someone blames porn on ruining their relationship that the relationship was weak from the beginning, but I actually have a change of heart on it the more I read things about it and saw couples ending their relationship due to it.
It seems like now that internet porn is very accessible, free, can be done in private, and anonymous where the person doesn't have to been seen or anything, that it has had an effect on the woman in the relationship (assuming it is the man who spends most of his time watching porn) as well as the couple.
The man ends up getting many of his sexual needs done by watching porn (meaning he can probably please himself from that alone forgetting his girlfriend or wife),and/or he tries to get his girlfriend/wife to do things that he sees in porn (normal people sex is viewed as boring today ), and/or he completely loses touch with what a woman is willing to do in bed after seeing something done in porn. All this in turn can either make a woman extremely insecure feeling that her spouse isn't attracted to her anymore, or that she must be bad in bed since she won't do some of the things he wants.
While I know porn has always existed, it has reached a whole other level since people now have the computer in their home and some even on their phone. Maybe back in the day someone had hidden tapes but they weren't watched daily for a lengthy amount of time and typically didn't replace sex.
I hate sounding like a Debbie Downer but I truly believe that the more modern and technologically advanced that we get as a society, the more we lose our basic skills and instincts. I used to go to this board under another name (an ex was on CD and I don't want him to view my posts hence the name change) always wanted romance advice, but I truly gave up looking feeling like trying to find a man whom is right for me is like a needle in a haystack.
If you're a man, it's the safest approach to the opposite sex. No AIDS, no alimony, no child support.
A man gets involved with a woman, she gets pregnant, and for a few years life is good together. Then, suddenly, she doesn't "love him like that any more" and the relationship is over. Fine for her, she's got the kids she wanted. But he gets to spend a couple of decades paying for rides on the Merry-Go-Round after the carnival left town.
So, with internet porn being free, it's a VIABLE ALTERNATIVE to years of paying through the nose for a couple of enjoyable years.
That being said, there is another very real expense in surfing those sites. Many, if not most, of those sites are filled with viruses and trojans, and the software and other remedies to clean up your computer are not cheap... But, still cheaper than a woman.
Ummmm, because it's fake sex and the people are just acting.
not always....there is a HUGE market for amateur/home made porn..and that is the stuff I would watch as it is real couples doing the business, its seems more natural to me
If you're a man, it's the safest approach to the opposite sex. No AIDS, no alimony, no child support.
A man gets involved with a woman, she gets pregnant, and for a few years life is good together. Then, suddenly, she doesn't "love him like that any more" and the relationship is over. Fine for her, she's got the kids she wanted. But he gets to spend a couple of decades paying for rides on the Merry-Go-Round after the carnival left town.
So, with internet porn being free, it's a VIABLE ALTERNATIVE to years of paying through the nose for a couple of enjoyable years.
That being said, there is another very real expense in surfing those sites. Many, if not most, of those sites are filled with viruses and trojans, and the software and other remedies to clean up your computer are not cheap... But, still cheaper than a woman.
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