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BAHAHAHAHA you have a lot to learn about women if you think we all run in a monolithic block. And porn is for masturbation which is a healthy activity that nearly all people engage in.
I know not all women or all people are the same. I hear a lot of couples watch porn together.
Are you saying you or women you know don't mind that their BF's use porn? Do you or women you know use porn? Is the only purpose of porn masturbation? If not, what other uses does it serve?
I know not all women or all people are the same. I hear a lot of couples watch porn together.
Are you saying you or women you know don't mind that their BF's use porn? Do you or women you know use porn? Is the only purpose of porn masturbation? If not, what other uses does it serve?
Enlighten me, I am willing to listen.
1. Any secure female is not going to care her mate watches porn. And believe it or not insecure men have the same issues with their girls watching porn.
2. Yes, a good portion if not a good majority of women actually watch porn. Esp as you hit younger ages like myself where sexuality is more accepted among girls.
3. Sure it can be for that, or a fun aide for couples to use in the bedroom.
You're making quite an assumption and I can surely tell you that you are wrong. Many girls could care less and even encourage viewing porn together. Heck, I've gone out with girls that looked at porn on their own.
Humans are very sexual by nature; however we hold back and stay reserved due so pressure from society and religious scripts that brainwash people.
A simple survey will show this.
You say they couldn't care less if their BF's watch porn, but you have to admit for many it's an act because of rhetoric that tells them they should tolerate it, when deep down they'd rather he not use porn. I suppose some couples watch porn together not to get off, but when they need outside help finding different things to try. As for the girls you've gone out with that look at porn themselves, why do they? Just out of curiousity? To compare themselves to other women? Or simply to get off like us guys do?
I definitely agree that going at it unreservedly and uninhibited (sober, mind you) is the key to good sex. But personally I've never had the inkling to look at porn when with a girl. Screw that crap when I have the real thing.
Oh and you think religion holds people back in sex? Uh, we're all human and I'd say it's usually performance anxiety even in girls and some of them may also have a fear of being branded a **** or whatever. Not sure if the **** part is religious based or what.
You say they couldn't care less if their BF's watch porn, but you have to admit for many it's an act because of rhetoric that tells them they should tolerate it, when deep down they'd rather he not use porn. I suppose some couples watch porn together not to get off, but when they need outside help finding different things to try. As for the girls you've gone out with that look at porn themselves, why do they? Just out of curiousity? To compare themselves to other women? Or simply to get off like us guys do?
I definitely agree that going at it unreservedly and uninhibited (sober, mind you) is the key to good sex. But personally I've never had the inkling to look at porn when with a girl. Screw that crap when I have the real thing.
Oh and you think religion holds people back in sex? Uh, we're all human and I'd say it's usually performance anxiety even in girls and some of them may also have a fear of being branded a **** or whatever. Not sure if the **** part is religious based or what.
No most just don't care because they do the same thing themsevles. You think we are fantasising about YOU when we masturbate, or the hot guy down the street who makes our knees quiver ? Couples watch porn to GET off...its a fun way to mutually masturbate, or get turned on before you do it. And we watch porn because it's hot, it's fun to see naked people have sex lol.
1. Any secure female is not going to care her mate watches porn. And believe it or not insecure men have the same issues with their girls watching porn.
2. Yes, a good portion if not a good majority of women actually watch porn. Esp as you hit younger ages like myself where sexuality is more accepted among girls.
3. Sure it can be for that, or a fun aide for couples to use in the bedroom.
I was asking how you or people you know felt personally. Real people. Real feelings.
I don't believe the majority of girls watch porn. The majority of guys probably do.
Never occured to me to watch porn when with a girl.
Anyway, in regard to #1 does that also extend to any secure girl should not have a problem with her boyfriend having sex with other girl's? I mean, it's possible to "share bodies" essentially while making it known he has a GF he's committed to.
I was asking how you or people you know felt personally. Real people. Real feelings.
I don't believe the majority of girls watch porn. The majority of guys probably do.
Never occured to me to watch porn when with a girl.
Anyway, in regard to #1 does that also extend to any secure girl should not have a problem with her boyfriend having sex with other girl's? I mean, it's possible to "share bodies" essentially while making it known he has a GF he's committed to.
Being a girl i can tell you that you are dead wrong there . And that's like comparing apples to oranges. Most people don't view porn as anything other than a fantasy, actually having sex with someone else is reality however.
No most just don't care because they do the same thing themsevles. You think we are fantasising about YOU when we masturbate, or the hot guy down the street who makes our knees quiver ? Couples watch porn to GET off...its a fun way to mutually masturbate, or get turned on before you do it. And we watch porn because it's hot, it's fun to see naked people have sex lol.
When you say "most", you can't really say that with validity as you don't know most people, but maybe most of your friends as it's natural to gravitate toward people like ourselves.
I am having a hard time understanding the need to watch porn when with somebody and now you're saying mutual masturbation. I had never even thought of that and don't really understand the point when physically together, but it might be interesting to try. Maybe I do need to open my mind a bit. Hmm.
You say they couldn't care less if their BF's watch porn, but you have to admit for many it's an act because of rhetoric that tells them they should tolerate it, when deep down they'd rather he not use porn. I suppose some couples watch porn together not to get off, but when they need outside help finding different things to try. As for the girls you've gone out with that look at porn themselves, why do they? Just out of curiousity? To compare themselves to other women? Or simply to get off like us guys do?
To get off. Why else? Girls like to get off too.
You're making your own assumptions and opinions and trying to justify them. Then take it a step further and try to pushing it on other people. They are just your opinions. Keep that in mind.
Opinions that can be proven wrong by a simple survey.
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I definitely agree that going at it unreservedly and uninhibited (sober, mind you) is the key to good sex. But personally I've never had the inkling to look at porn when with a girl. Screw that crap when I have the real thing.
Oh and you think religion holds people back in sex? Uh, we're all human and I'd say it's usually performance anxiety even in girls and some of them may also have a fear of being branded a **** or whatever. Not sure if the **** part is religious based or what.
Yes, I think there are things of little meaning that hold people in reserve when it comes to sex.
Girls put out like anything. Go to and public place and you'll see that you can pick up a girl in less than 10 minutes to screw if you wanted. Girls aren't worried about being called anything. After highschool, people just keep that stuff in the bedroom and don't make a big deal of it. Everyone knows that everyone's having sex. It's no surprise.
Being a girl i can tell you that you are dead wrong there . And that's like comparing apples to oranges. Most people don't view porn as anything other than a fantasy, actually having sex with someone else is reality however.
Yeah, maybe the majority of your girl friends use porn but being a guy and knowing a lot of guys who use porn, I can't say that the majority of guys do because of that. But I do know sometimes people say or think "well everyboy does that" as a means of justification or to not feel weird or different. I get the fantasy/reality divide, makes sense.
You're making your own assumptions and opinions and trying to justify them. Then take it a step further and try to pushing it on other people. They are just your opinions. Keep that in mind.
Opinions that can be proven wrong by a simple survey.
Yes, I think there are things of little meaning that hold people in reserve when it comes to sex.
Girls put out like anything. Go to and public place and you'll see that you can pick up a girl in less than 10 minutes to screw if you wanted. Girls aren't worried about being called anything. After highschool, people just keep that stuff in the bedroom and don't make a big deal of it. Everyone knows that everyone's having sex. It's no surprise.
Well dude, I need to go out in public with you and learn some things. I always get the sense there are girls I'm rubbing shoulders with in public if I began to recognize and said the right things to I could get more action.
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? Couples watch porn to GET off...its a fun way to mutually masturbate, or get turned on before you do it. And we watch porn because it's hot, it's fun to see naked people have sex lol.