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Once in a relationship masturbation is unacceptable!
Yikes, I would not want to be in a relationship with you. I'm not with my man 24/7 and I imagine there are times that he wants a release and either I'm not there or I'm not in the mood. By all means, please take care of yourself. Why should he sit around waiting for me?
And I get the same treatment. Sometimes I just want a quick release and don't feel like going through the whole deal of inviting him over, getting things started, foreplay, and then messing around for an hour. I don't always have that kind of time so why not spend 5 minutes solo?
Yikes, I would not want to be in a relationship with you. I'm not with my man 24/7 and I imagine there are times that he wants a release and either I'm not there or I'm not in the mood. By all means, please take care of yourself. Why should he sit around waiting for me?
And I get the same treatment. Sometimes I just want a quick release and don't feel like going through the whole deal of inviting him over, getting things started, foreplay, and then messing around for an hour. I don't always have that kind of time so why not spend 5 minutes solo?
Yeah, it was quite an exaggeration. I certainly don't believe it's "wrong" to masturbate once you're in a relationship. However, to do this to the image of another naked woman is a different matter.
Yeah, it was quite an exaggeration. I certainly don't believe it's "wrong" to masturbate once you're in a relationship. However, to do this to the image of another naked woman is a different matter.
Why? You never think about other people? You can be in a committed and loving relationship and still find other people attractive. It's a purely physical thing, not an emotional one.
How might that dialogue go, I wonder? C'mon, people. All this sounds very nice, but no self-respecting woman is going to or should take blame for a man being a pervert. And then people say, "Well it might be that she's not satisfying him". That's sad. I thought we had gotten past that kind of thinking, but I guess the women's rights movement really WAS just an act. I say, even if the wife isn't interested in sex AT ALL, go to a therapist (a qualified therapist!), something. Anything before turning to porn.
The problem is, defining "neglect". What if the man spends equal time watching porn and making love to his wife? What if it's 40/60 one way or the other? There's no objective way to measure it, so you really don't know for sure when it's becoming dangerous.
And here's another problem I bet these husbands wouldn't want their wives to consider: How is she supposed to know who you're thinking of, when you're making love? At least with a man who doesn't watch porn, you can kinda assume there isn't anyone else he sees like that. But with a guy who watches it, you KNOW he sees other women like that on a regular basis. I don't know, it's just too weird. I've always felt the term "adult entertainment" was off; it should be called "recently pubescent teenager entertainment". That's who porn was made for, people, not grown men with families and jobs! Grow tha hell up!
....or something.
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We also watch it separately and then we masturbate...separately.
Some people around here are just way too uptight.
What you and your "SO" do or don't do is your business, but I'll bet you $1,000 that your relationship will not last. It's just the nature of the beast.
Yeah, it was quite an exaggeration. I certainly don't believe it's "wrong" to masturbate once you're in a relationship. However, to do this to the image of another naked woman is a different matter.
So a guy can have a picture of another woman in his head when he masturbates, but he can't look at an actual picture?!
I wonder how many women don't want their men to look at porn, but read romance novels?
What you and your "SO" do or don't do is your business, but I'll bet you $1,000 that your relationship will not last. It's just the nature of the beast.
My wife and I not only watch porn, we watch live people having sex and *GASP* have sex with other people, too!!
I'll take your bet, is 10 years hence sufficient to receive payment? We've already been together 8.
What you and your "SO" do or don't do is your business, but I'll bet you $1,000 that your relationship will not last. It's just the nature of the beast.
Going on 7 years now and still in love
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