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I met this guy 2 weeks ago at a bar and he asked me for my number. He asked me to go to dinner with him last Friday. Made reservations and we went out drinking afterwards. I got pretty drunk so I stayed at his place. We fooled around but didn't have sex. I left in the morning and he texted me to make sure I got home okay and later that day to see if I was feeling better. Fast-forward two days and I hadn't heard anything so I texted him asking him when I could see him again and almost 9 hours later he texted me back "haha! good question :P". I have yet to respond since I have no idea if he's being sarcastic or what. Any ideas?
I met this guy 2 weeks ago at a bar and he asked me for my number. He asked me to go to dinner with him last Friday. Made reservations and we went out drinking afterwards. I got pretty drunk so I stayed at his place. We fooled around but didn't have sex. I left in the morning and he texted me to make sure I got home okay and later that day to see if I was feeling better. Fast-forward two days and I hadn't heard anything so I texted him asking him when I could see him again and almost 9 hours later he texted me back "haha! good question :P". I have yet to respond since I have no idea if he's being sarcastic or what. Any ideas?
uhh, hes probably just playing games with you.. ball is in his court, let him make the decision... otherwise continue on with ur life.. dont be desperate
I met this guy 2 weeks ago at a bar and he asked me for my number. He asked me to go to dinner with him last Friday. Made reservations and we went out drinking afterwards. I got pretty drunk so I stayed at his place. We fooled around but didn't have sex. I left in the morning and he texted me to make sure I got home okay and later that day to see if I was feeling better. Fast-forward two days and I hadn't heard anything so I texted him asking him when I could see him again and almost 9 hours later he texted me back "haha! good question :P". I have yet to respond since I have no idea if he's being sarcastic or what. Any ideas?
Could just mean he's busy in the coming weeks.
I mean if he texted to make sure you got home, and then texted to make sure you were feeling better, etc... I'd think the guy cares somewhat...
You COULD just text back, "Meaning you're busy? Or that you don't want to? Help me out here... :P "...
Seems early enough in the relationship to just come out with your question... If he's interested you should get a pretty quick response squelching your concerns I'd think... (At least you would from me.. )
I do not know what exactly he is thinking. I do know I would not have responded like that. If I wanted to see you again, I would have responded by trying to set up another date.
I do not know what exactly he is thinking. I do know I would not have responded like that. If I wanted to see you again, I would have responded by trying to set up another date.
I agree. "good question" is very noncommittal. If you are extremely interested in the guy, then consider asking him out. If not, then just move on.
I agree. "good question" is very noncommittal. If you are extremely interested in the guy, then consider asking him out. If not, then just move on.
I agree. If he turns down your invitation, at least you'll know he's not interested. If he accepts, then you'll take it from there. I think the text was rude, but I'm all for second chances when there's a grey area. Perhaps he's just clueless when it comes to dating protocol.
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I met this guy 2 weeks ago at a bar and he asked me for my number. He asked me to go to dinner with him last Friday. Made reservations and we went out drinking afterwards. I got pretty drunk so I stayed at his place. We fooled around but didn't have sex. I left in the morning and he texted me to make sure I got home okay and later that day to see if I was feeling better. Fast-forward two days and I hadn't heard anything so I texted him asking him when I could see him again and almost 9 hours later he texted me back "haha! good question :P". I have yet to respond since I have no idea if he's being sarcastic or what. Any ideas?
Good question?
I would ignore him. Until he asked a question and then say "good question" and then return to ignoring him.
Next time you get "pretty drunk" on a first date, consider taking a taxi home.
How about not drinking enough to be intoxicated in the first place.
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