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C mon,we know what she means. He got her drunk,and he took advantage.
Um no. More blaming the guy and not owning up to your own faults. More than likely he was drinking as well. He did not get her anything. She decided to drink. She put herself in that situation.
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The point isn't whether he gave her something to drink.
He could have had sex with her while she was passed out. That wouldn't be her fault.
There's more to the date than I want to talk about that ended up happening. It's just so embarrassing. Basically, I've learned that it was all my fault and I probably shouldn't date again, as well as continue to go proana until I become a size that doesn't warrant being asked out by jerks.
There's more to the date than I want to talk about that ended up happening. It's just so embarrassing. Basically, I've learned that it was all my fault and I probably shouldn't date again, as well as continue to go proana until I become a size that doesn't warrant being asked out by jerks.
Trust me when I say size has nothing to do with being asked out by jerks. They come in all shapes and sizes and I know a few women who thought their whole damn world was going to change if they just lost weight and when it didn't they were confused. It wasn't their weight that was the issue it was their personalities sucked. So, you can weigh 100 or 200 and all the same BS applies.
There's more to the date than I want to talk about that ended up happening. It's just so embarrassing. Basically, I've learned that it was all my fault and I probably shouldn't date again, as well as continue to go proana until I become a size that doesn't warrant being asked out by jerks.
We can only respond to your comments based on the information you give us. If the lad spiked your drink and took advantage of you...then that obviously changes the entire discussion. Anyway, Thursday has covered the points i would have added to the conversation...
All i can say is that not dating is not the solution. You must find a way to interact with people without allowing yourself to be taken advantage of...
I know my weight has a lot to do with my issues. Everything I do revolves around my weight. If it wasn't there, I'd be a better person. I recently lost some weight, and just losing a couple of pounds changed my whole outlook for the day. So I know that if I was like 105, I'd be a wonderful person.
And I think I was just scared that if I said no to anything, I would mess up the date. This was my first date and I know that I did everything wrong. Now I just don't want to try again because I know that I can't say no. I'm too afraid of rejection, so I'll never be a good judge of anything.
There are women who are not proportionate and will never be no matter how much they gain or lose weight. I'm one of them,and so are my sisters. They are 2x up top,but a size 10.
They can say they are a size 10,but when most people hear that they would assume they aren't overweight.
Dress size has more to do with hip size,which for the most part is bone.
As far as the Bmi charts,I read extra body weight,whether its muscle or fat,is still detrimental to health. I would need to look up the reason why though.
You called me "a bigger woman", without even seeing so much as a picture, going by a chart that does not even take into account if I am a man or woman. So a man who is 5'4" tall is overweight at 156 pounds? According to the BMI chart, he is.
I stand by my opinion. And I will depend on my clothing size, mirror, and measurements.
You called me "a bigger woman", without even seeing so much as a picture, going by a chart that does not even take into account if I am a man or woman. So a man who is 5'4" tall is overweight at 156 pounds? According to the BMI chart, he is.
I stand by my opinion. And I will depend on my clothing size, mirror, and measurements.
BMI charts go by the average individual. It may not apply to you specifically, but for most at your height/weight, it does.
I know my weight has a lot to do with my issues. Everything I do revolves around my weight. If it wasn't there, I'd be a better person. I recently lost some weight, and just losing a couple of pounds changed my whole outlook for the day. So I know that if I was like 105, I'd be a wonderful person.
And I think I was just scared that if I said no to anything, I would mess up the date. This was my first date and I know that I did everything wrong. Now I just don't want to try again because I know that I can't say no. I'm too afraid of rejection, so I'll never be a good judge of anything.
No, weight is only a number and has very little to do with your issues. Its how you perceive your weight, that has an impact on you. If you dont like your weight, do something about - it is really not that hard unless you have a medical condition of sorts.
Please she didn't pass out and he had sex with her - let's not stretch the imagination. SHE got drunk. HE didn't get her drunk. SHE chose to have sex with him HE didn't rape her. The 'he got me drunk and took advantage of me" just ain't gonna fly. Learn to control yourself.
No,wrong.
Even though she didn't say if she passed out or not,he still took advantage.
I'm so glad I have brothers that woupd have ripped that guy apart if that were me,whether I passed out or not.
Most males on here no good and well that men get women drunk to take advantage of them.
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