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Old 02-17-2012, 11:27 AM
 
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Do men actually enjoy going to a restaurant as their "first date" or is that just to please a woman also. Going to a restaurant sounds like a girlie type activity for a man.
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Old 02-17-2012, 11:32 AM
 
Location: Where Dance Music comes first
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I think you need to relax! I like to lighten the mood from time to time with a little humor.
I think you mistook an Ad Hominem for humour.
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Old 02-17-2012, 11:36 AM
 
Location: back in Boston
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Do men actually enjoy going to a restaurant as their "first date" or is that just to please a woman also. Going to a restaurant sounds like a girlie type activity for a man.
I like dining out. You don't have to cook or clean up afterwards. What's girly about that?
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Old 02-17-2012, 12:02 PM
 
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I like dining out. You don't have to cook or clean up afterwards. What's girly about that?
I was just wondering if the guy chose the restaurant idea or if it were her idea.
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Old 02-17-2012, 12:05 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I think you mistook an Ad Hominem for humour.
Oh good grief! All this anger is not good for a person! Honestly - I think there are still lots of gentlemen in real life and on this forum - they just aren't as loud as the others! And it seems to me that many of the guys that are complaining on this thread and others don't want to be a gentleman anyway - so what's the big deal!
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Old 02-17-2012, 12:08 PM
 
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Whenever I tell my SO about a thread like this one and some of the characters on it, he furrows his brow and usually says something like, "And they wonder why they don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend."

Another favorite is, "They don't like it/they don't get it, so no one else should have it/do it that way," or "They can't figure it out so everyone else is wrong."

And sometimes he gets right to the point, with "What an ahole." He uses that term in a gender-neutral way.
I'd rep you Yzette, but it says I've given you too much and need to spread the reputation points, but your SO is absolutely CORRECT in his assessments.

That's why HE has a GIRLFRIEND. LOL!!
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Old 02-17-2012, 12:09 PM
 
Location: Hell, NY
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Do men actually enjoy going to a restaurant as their "first date" or is that just to please a woman also. Going to a restaurant sounds like a girlie type activity for a man.

I eat out probably twice a week. I love eating out. What's girly about that? I never heard that one before. Who doesn't like being waited on and not having to cook their own meal?
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Old 02-17-2012, 12:10 PM
 
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I eat out probably twice a week. I love eating out. What's girly about that? I never heard that one before. Who doesn't like being waited on and not having to cook their own meal?
You know how to treat a woman supermanpansy.

Too bad some others haven't a "clue" of what you're talking about, including some of the women (which I find very sad).
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Old 02-17-2012, 12:21 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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I eat out probably twice a week. I love eating out. What's girly about that? I never heard that one before. Who doesn't like being waited on and not having to cook their own meal?
Should this post be reported for not being PG?

It seems to be about oral sex and masturbation
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Old 02-17-2012, 12:26 PM
 
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I can think of a million things that would make me feel "pampered" or create "romance" on a first date...its sad to think some women's idea of that includes shelling out some cash at the end of a meal...
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