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Old 02-17-2012, 08:38 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I won't tell you how to think. I was suggesting you step back and think about your words because they sounded a little crazy. I thought maybe you were just getting riled up by one poster and didn't mean what you said. I guess I was wrong. But please carry on...Who am I to stop you from portraying yourself as a scorned bitter woman with a very large chip on her shoulder. It's entertaining to say the least

All the best

sometimes I wonder what people expect to accomplish when they say things like that. it's obviously not to 'help' instead it's to add fire to the flames so in actuality you're no better then the next person here. so quit acting like you are. .
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Old 02-17-2012, 08:38 PM
 
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"I feel so bad, you keep paying all the time, would you like me to pay?"

"No, it's fine" <winks>

"Thank you"
This might be OK if you have been dating for sometime and are anticipating fun to happen later.

However, if this is a first date you should not be anticipating anything other than her having a good time with your company and a goodnight kiss.

A wink implies other things happening later that evening. Don't expect anything but her company and a good time.
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Old 02-17-2012, 08:41 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I don't know anyone who won't take it personally when called a liar. I'm sorry you have had bad experiences with men. But I'm obligated to call you out with painting with such a broad brush... I've done it numerous times with the men here.

My favorite color is green.

good another person to jump on the bandwagon. what is the point seriously? Obviously it's not going to change my point of view on the matter (especially not with all the nice ways people are discussing the subject).
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Old 02-17-2012, 08:44 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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This might be OK if you have been dating for sometime and are anticipating fun to happen later.

However, if this is a first date you should not be anticipating anything other than her having a good time with your company and a goodnight kiss.

A wink implies other things happening later that evening. Don't expect anything but her company and a good time.
I was trying to say I am not wired to ever accept if the woman is willing to pay, for the sake of social courtesy, in tune with the macro-sentiment on this thread. Whatever made you think I was looking for a stamp of approval, no less yours.

Chat thread must be slow tonight.
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Old 02-17-2012, 08:47 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I was trying to say I am not wired to ever accept if the woman is willing to pay, for the sake of social courtesy, in tune with the macro-sentiment on this thread. Whatever made you think I was looking for a stamp of approval, no less yours.

Chat thread must be slow tonight.

I don't have a problem at all if you don't accept a woman's willingness to pay. I assume you have your own reasons for being that way. Clearly people have a problem here accepting others' opinions on matters.
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Old 02-17-2012, 08:47 PM
 
Location: Where Dance Music comes first
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good another person to jump on the bandwagon. what is the point seriously? Obviously it's not going to change my point of view on the matter (especially not with all the nice ways people are discussing the subject).
And that is where people like me come in.
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Old 02-17-2012, 08:48 PM
 
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I was trying to say I am not wired to ever accept if the woman is willing to pay, for the sake of social courtesy, in tune with the macro-sentiment on this thread. Whatever made you think I was looking for a stamp of approval, no less yours.

Chat thread must be slow tonight.
A wink says a thousand words.

All i gotta say.
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Old 02-17-2012, 08:49 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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And that is where people like me come in.
i don't know what you mean by that.
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Old 02-17-2012, 08:50 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I don't have a problem at all if you don't accept a woman's willingness to pay. I assume you have your own reasons for being that way. Clearly people have a problem here accepting others' opinions on matters.
She didn't force. She asked and I respectfully denied. And it's the second time on the same day. I lunched with her and I picked the tab. I think I have nothing against paying for the whole tab. I just get annoyed tipping the waiter every time. Ugh. But I still tipped him.
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Old 02-17-2012, 08:50 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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a wink says a thousand words.

All i gotta say.
lol.
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