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Old 03-05-2012, 02:49 PM
 
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You are being played. If I understand, she is living in the $600K house that you own? And you aren't allowed there? If so, you have to be one of the biggest suckas in the world.

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Old 03-05-2012, 02:52 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Originally Posted by SouthernBelleInUtah View Post
You are being played. If I understand, she is living in the $600K house that you own? And you aren't allowed there? If so, you have to be one of the biggest suckas in the world.

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Don't think she lives in the house, that was the house price for the home they were going to build together.

What this guy doesn't realize is, this is the kind of thing that can happen when you get involved with someone else's wife, especially when there are young kids involved.

He needs professional counseling to get his head on straight.
 
Old 03-05-2012, 03:10 PM
 
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She ended up being able to buy the house through a private investor since the government wouldn't guarantee the loan due to prior financial issues. She had a very demonstrated repay history for the financial issue - one which the government won't over look but a private investor could - for a 2 pt higher interest rate.

I bought a different house. I first put that one on hold and then backed out.

She lives in the house we designed together. Of course he is helping pick out stuff, yard work, etc. Washing their cars, etc.. Staying there for new construction warranty issues...
 
Old 03-05-2012, 03:13 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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She ended up being able to buy the house through a private investor since the government wouldn't guarantee the loan due to prior financial issues. She had a very demonstrated repay history for the financial issue - one which the government won't over look but a private investor could - for a 2 pt higher interest rate.

I bought a different house. I first put that one on hold and then backed out.

She lives in the house we designed together. Of course he is helping pick out stuff, yard work, etc. Washing their cars, etc.. Staying there for new construction warranty issues...
ohmygosh

Have I mentioned that you need some professional guidance?
 
Old 03-05-2012, 03:27 PM
 
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Im not judging you, but karma is a biatch isnt it? Perhaps if all of you took your marriage vows seriously and weren't involved in trying to destroy another family, you would be in a better place. You're being played since day 1, and even years later cant see it? If I were you, I would stop all contact and move - you have nothing to gain by staying in limbo.
 
Old 03-05-2012, 04:39 PM
 
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anyone else ?

So far I got it !!! same others have told me
 
Old 03-05-2012, 05:01 PM
 
Location: Way up high
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Move on. It's a never ending circle of games and BS
 
Old 03-05-2012, 05:07 PM
 
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Gee, and I thought I had problems...
 
Old 03-05-2012, 08:15 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Old 03-05-2012, 09:45 PM
 
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anyone else ?

So far I got it !!! same others have told me

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