What Would YOU do - help (girl, husband, separated, children)
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Why in the world can't someone see that waiting alone for nearly two years is immensely incredible giving thing ? It's like there is no respect whatsoever for having to endure his presence there for the first year. Right after divorce and while committed to house and building, then since then and all this time ?
Why can't they see after waiting for a year ... doing the building thing ... the last thing to do was NOT see me for 3 weeks. Then allow him to be with them on weekends ? Is that not very very cold and callous or is that just me ?
How is it even possible for a person to do this to another ?
Your not out of line....you are out of your mind...get some help, it obvious that you cannot do the right thing...leave her in your dust...go no contact.
I just keep asking myself why won't she just love me and stop it with him. Based on what she says to me it sounds like she could. Based on what she has done for about 23 months with him always in her life to my exclusion - and continues too ... I'm thinking I'm a damn fool.
I even asked if I showed up what would you do - she said she would run me off cause she hasn't agreed to having me there. So face-to-face I would be shunned for him. :-(
It's all a consequence of him always being put before me in every situation. .
He is her husand. You are an interloper into their relationship.
Quit feeling sorry for yourself and start feeling sorry for him.
This woman sounds like total trash - she is getting to have her cake and eat it and have two grown men running around after her like a pair of hormonal teenage boys.
Your post reads like you somehow have blame for him in all this. I hope I'm misreading because while you have got yourself into this situation all by yourself, that poor man has been the real victim in all this.
Get some self respect and move on. This woman sounds like she has ice for a heart and you sound so obsessed with your own gratification that you'll put her innocent family through hell.
If you end up with this woman, she'll probably end up doing the exact same thing to you and you'll be in the husband's shoes. How much more proof do you need that this is not a viable relationship?
So all that advice you got prior to your last post was flat out ignored?
I say continue down your path of madness just to see where it all ends because you seem incapable of making any good decisions or listening to people's pearls of wisdom.
Sometimes I wonder how people get themselves dressed in the mornings
On a rerun of 2 1/2 men today, they talked about Charlie having a Vagina addition.
Hers must be good cause it's causing your Big Brain to not listen to your Little Brain. You might try standing on your head to get the blood back to the top.
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