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Nope, happily married to a guy who doesn't wear skinny jeans or sunglasses inside!
He also has an above-average sense of humor.
I think we all gathered that
Seriously though, I could understand someone wearing the sunglasses for vanity sake being a deal-breaker, but then it's the vanity, not the actual glasses. But honestly, I think that if someone was so vane that they could not tolerate me for how I appeared, EVEN if there was a medical reason, THAT would be a dealbreaker for me. In fact I know it!
Very few things are dealbreakers, other than kids/no kids being the obvious. And generally not getting along. i could tolerate a lot of things, but only if the other half could too. I don't think I could tolerate racism, or other forms of prejudice. But I could (theoretically) get around someone who polar opposite political views, IF they could be open to mine and IF they could justify theirs without spewing hate.
Most of these things are really just a part of something bigger, and it is difficult to analyze them in a vacuum without looking at the whole person. At least it is for me. (Again, the kid/no kid thing is pretty black and white, if you know you are one side of that issue, then it is difficult to comprimise.)
Seriously though, I could understand someone wearing the sunglasses for vanity sake being a deal-breaker, but then it's the vanity, not the actual glasses.
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Thanks. This is what I actually meant, before it collapsed into the whole "Transitions lenses" debacle.
I agree that true dealbreakers are rare, though we know them when we "see" them. And I think most of the so-called dealbreakers that seem petty to some are "symptoms" of bigger issues that could be dealbreakers, i.e. rudeness to hourly workers = unbearable arrogance.
Smelly
Bad teeth
Long beard
Very overweight
Into witchcraft/Satanism
Hates kids
Hates animals
Hates Life
Loves himself too much.
Doesn't love himself enough.
INSANE.
Ha!! All of the above rates as insane. Imagine all of these in one guy...scary.
I try not to have any big dealbreakers. I am kind of a music snob, but I can overlook that usually. I just like the pretty/down to earth girl next door types for the most part. Pobody's nerfect!
Not wanting kids
Being racist, homophobic, or otherwise intolerant of view points different than their own
Doing drugs
Being overweight and not taking good care of their personal hygiene...i.e. showering, teeth brushing, clean clothes, etc.
I dont care if me and a woman are compatible in every single way, if she has ugly feet, I am out the door without looking back. She can be a 10 from the ankles up, if her feet arent well manicured and shaped nicely, I just cant do it.
So we all know that there is no such thing as "perfection". But there are some things about a person that will just make you go "Uhhh.....no.". And fully decide to stop dating or being with them.
What are these things for you personally? What are your deal breakers?
If she has a kid.
Not in shape.
Does not believe in God.
Not willing to work for a salary.
Not good with finances.
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