Deal Breakers (date, wives, married, woman)

[howdydoody342]

Originally Posted by Mooseketeer

Lots of Deal Breakers for me :


Being Boring - Cardinal Sin IMO.
Racism
Homophobia
Dishonest
Sexism
Xenophobia
Bigotry in general
Cruelty
Selfishness
Thoughtlessness
Lack of intellectual curiosity
Someone who does not enjoy travelling
Arrogance
Stupidity
Dirty/Poor Oral Hygiene/Smelly
Anyone who does not like Animals
Someone who wants Kids
A Mommy's Boy
Gym Bunny
Obsessive about Hobbies, Sports etc... An interest in stuff is great, an obsession I can do without
No interest in Culture ( The Arts, Theatre, Music, etc...) - We need to be compatible

forget anything else?

[Checkered24]

Wow, I am not sure I can quanitfy a list.

I guess for me it depends on whether they are truly a good person in their heart. Caring, compassionate, empathetic, giving without expectation of getting.

Maybe not so easy for me to say, but I know it when I see it.

[Andi61]

Takers. They take and take and never give back. If its all about them, I'm gone.

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by Soviet

??? Some people wear prescription sunglasses. I'm one of them. I'm really going to be excluded because I wear those glasses indoors during errands?

Yes. Take them off and put on your regular glasses. You're INSIDE, not outside. I wear Rx sunglasses, and that's what I do.

If you wear those Transitions glasses that change from glasses to sunglasses, that's a DEFINITE dealbreaker.

[Lucario]

Looking at some of these dealbreakers, I can see why some people are alone.........

[findly185]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

Yes. Take them off and put on your regular glasses. You're INSIDE, not outside. I wear Rx sunglasses, and that's what I do.

If you wear those Transitions glasses that change from glasses to sunglasses, that's a DEFINITE dealbreaker.

Single much?

[Checkered24]

Originally Posted by Lucario

Looking at some of these dealbreakers, I can see why some people are alone.........

Who said all the respondants are alone?

[Mooseketeer]

Originally Posted by howdydoody342

forget anything else?

Probably. Seriously though which of the stuff on my list would you consider an attractive desirable trait ? Maybe I am just more honest than many people. What is the point of being with someone if you don't respect them or find them boring ?

For the record I have found that person and been with him for over 2 decades so not doing too badly.

[howdydoody342]

Originally Posted by Mooseketeer

Probably. Seriously though which of the stuff on my list would you consider an attractive desirable trait ? Maybe I am just more honest than many people. What is the point of being with someone if you don't respect them or find them boring ?

For the record I have found that person and been with him for over 2 decades so not doing too badly.

haha just the obsession about a hobby.. I think hobbies are good and an obsession with one is better than a obsession with drugs, alcohol, cheating, ect.

[Snd485]

I only have four that I can think of --
lying
doing drugs
having poor hygiene
making me feel uncomfortable