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About 4 months ago i met this girl. An attractive, young, sexy girl.
After about 2 weeks we had sex for the first time and since then we had sex on regular basis. I might have developped some feelings for her, she also has feelings for me.
So since i liked her we went to a restaurant at valentine's day. I also bought her roses and went shopping with her. She also tells me very personal things about her family and such. So i know she's being "serious" We always had a great time and we still do but she is a flirt. She loves to tell me how other guys try to hit on her just to make me jealous, because she likes it when i show her i really like her. I've only told her i might "love" her once (She tells me she "loves" me on daily basis, and i know for a fact she does).
Now the thing is, i really like her but the fact she's a bit egocentric and manipulative works on my nerves but attracts me at the same time (I like her "cocky" personality)? I've already thought about just leaving it like it is because of these features but i don't want to leave her because i can't stand the thought of her being with someone else.. (just looking for love with another guy or having sex with another guy) nor would i want to leave her.
I'm sorry if this sounds a bit weird, my english is not perfect
Could someone please tell me what to do? I feel a bit "uncomfortable" with the whole situation.
Greetings Raffael.
I've already thought about just leaving it like it is because of these features but i don't want to leave her because i can't stand the thought of her being with someone else..
That chick isn't relationship material and it won't last. Enjoy banging her for now, but realize it WILL be another dude cracking that before too long.
Well, i would miss her if we'd go apart.. I'm sure i would because i really care for her. But i do not know if we are made for eachother. I'm in a dilemma, one part of me loves her, and doesn't want to leave her. But the other part wants to get out of her tangles and live my own life again.
And with "but i don't want to leave her because i can't stand the thought of her being with someone else" i mean that if we'd go apart i couldn't handle the fact that somebody else could have his hands on her body, laugh with her like we laughed, kiss her like we kissed, have the same moments we shared.
That chick isn't relationship material and it won't last. Enjoy banging her for now, but realize it WILL be another dude cracking that before too long.
That chick isn't relationship material and it won't last. Enjoy banging her for now, but realize it WILL be another dude cracking that before too long.
Because she is egocentric and manipulative or ... ? Just trying to understand what you are saying!
I've been down this road before. Love the thrill, hate the heartache. I agree with the advice saying to enjoy it while it lasts, because chances are a relationship with this kind of drama isn't likely to be sustainable.
Basically, I'd just let things run their natural course, but of course don't let the situation turn you into a complete basketcase (unfortunately, this is where things appear to be heading)
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